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My boyfriend is still in love with his ex

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Pool_elite012

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It’s been over 3 years since their divorce. We’ve been dating for almost 2 years now. He still shows that he’s not over her and the hurt she caused him. I know I shouldn’t be selfish and I should be more compassionate, but at what point is it a lost cause for me? He hasn’t told me he loves me and I kinda feel like our relationship hasn’t deepened in the past year. It feels stuck in place. I don’t really know what the best move is. Be patient? Talk to him about my concerns? What if my concerns are just my selfish thoughts? Am I looking at this whole situation in the wrong way? I don’t really know what to think anymore.
 
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Pool_elite012 said:
It’s been over 3 years since their divorce. We’ve been dating for almost 2 years now. He still shows that he’s not over her and the hurt she caused him. I know I shouldn’t be selfish and I should be more compassionate, but at what point is it a lost cause for me? He hasn’t told me he loves me and I kinda feel like our relationship hasn’t deepened in the past year. It feels stuck in place. I don’t really know what the best move is. Be patient? Talk to him about my concerns? What if my concerns are just my selfish thoughts? Am I looking at this whole situation in the wrong way? I don’t really know what to think anymore.
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You guys need to break ungodly soul ties between him and his ex.
 
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Not knowing details about you or your boyfriend, anything I say could be off. As you know, the devil is in the details.

However, from a general perspective, I think there is a time to observe and a time to decide. After two years, I believe it’s time to decide.

Personal relationships are significant. You know you're with the right person when you feel inner peace. Do you feel peace with this person, or are you in conflict?

Don’t ignore what you already sense intuitively. If this person isn’t right for you, let them go as soon as possible. You’ll find the right person if you’re patient and honest.
 
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