Prayer Please

[JohnEboy1983]

Well I made a very tough decision tonight. I went out with this girl I posted about in another post who had a lot of baggage where her heart was somewhere else. I really fell in love with her but she is so attached to other things it probably could not work out. Usually when you hang out with a girl you like you end up going home with a big smile on your face. Everytime I would go out with this girl i would always go home crying because I wanted to be with her so bad and her heart was obviously not there. Tonight after going out to a comedy in a group and I finally went home for the night feeling the same way(sad) so I texted her that I cannot see her anymore outside church. Its so hard on me because of how much I like her and this will be better for me. I do feel better, but also feel heartbroken like I was actually in a relationship. Please pray for me that Gods will be done in my life and that he takes away my pain. Thank you.

 

[Forgiven83]

Praying for you, that God will either turn her heart or bring someone else in your life.

 

[DeepBlueSea]

How are you doing? Things better?

 

[JohnEboy1983]

How are you doing? Things better?

Thanks for asking. Yes, things are much better. As I commented in your post about red flags, I surely had some of my own with this girl. Love can blind and its what it did to me, but praise the Lord that he really dealt with me before I could have got myself in worse trouble and a bigger heartbreak later on down the road. I am over this girl now and it all came from realizing that we wouldnt work out and she may due me in for big heartbreak and pain if I got involved with her. I am back to my normal self now.....Single, which I was before, but it just felt different being around this girl.....hard to explain,but I must say that I really dont feel bad and am actually doing great. Sometimes those lonely feelings come and go, both strong and weak, but God keeps me going and whatever he chooses for my life I am really excited about because I know if I submit my life over to him that he will not dissapoint. Well thanks for your concern.

Sincerely,
John

 

[DeepBlueSea]

Glad you are doing good!

As far as being lonely.. I know plenty of married people who are lonely. Marriage and dating is not the cure for that, as we know. If it were, people would not have affairs. Im sure you know that, just wanted to put it out there.

 

[JohnEboy1983]

As far as being lonely.. I know plenty of married people who are lonely.

Thats funny you say that. I was just talking to my friend who is alot older than I am and his daughter is just going through her second divorce. He was talking with me about her and said she told him that she felt very lonely even though she was married.

 

[NestForASparrow]

Just because it did not work out now does not mean it won't work out for you in the future. A couple that I attended their wedding last year had dated five years prior and had called it off. So even if it takes a long time, it may still work out in the end. Or you might find someone who is perfect. Whether it is a chance meeting (of course we know chance meetings are more in the realm of God's will) or whether God reveals her to you, it is all done by faith.