So my question is...is it wrong for me to have the opinion that maybe being gay has the biological factor and while the person may feel that it isn't their fault, they still have the choice to pursue being gay or not.
It is their
choice. If we chalk up being homosexual to biological reasons alone (and excuse the
choice of lifestyle that individual made), then we'd also have to excuse murders, rapist, child molesters (etc.).
I'm not equating being homosexual to murdering, raping, child molestation, and the like, but it is similar in that most individuals who choice those acts were influenced by biological traits or environmental factors (as they were raised). This is evidence by a profile of serial killers and rapist and the like. The profile for each list how they probably grew up, and how they probably acted as a child (etc.).
BUT, the
decision to murder or rape was theirs. If this weren't the case (and it was purely biological) we would be able to tell, with great precision, who was going to be a rapist or murder, or homosexual in the future.
We'd also be able to tell who was going to be an engineer or math teacher for that matter. Many have taken those test which are suppose to tell you what you will be in the future (based on your character traits), but the test aren't 100% because the choice is always up to the individual. If one is best fit to be a teacher, that doesn't mean he/she can't avoid it. The choice is theirs. In the same manner, someone who has the potential to be a homosexual isn't forced to be so. He/she makes the choice.
Take child molesters, for example. A child molester can't help that he finds children appealing, but does that give him the okay to molest them. Should we (society) say well he had no choice? It was in his genes. Or, a thief who always has the urge to steal, should we allow him to do so because he was built with those urges. That's ludicrous. We, as society,
know people will have urges to do things they shouldn't do, that's why we have
LAWS. If people would always do right we wouldn't need laws. Should we allow people to break the law because "they couldn't help it?" No. In the same manner, we shouldn't dismiss the sin of an individual because "they couldn't help it."
I related being a homosexual to being a murderer and rapist, but (to clarify) it's also related to being an engineer or math teacher (or at least the potential of being these things as indicated by biological reasons). Personally, I do not think homosexuality should be illegal, but from a religious standpoint, I don't dismiss the
choice a homosexual makes to pursuing that lifestyle and just chalk it up to biological reasons. Which would, in turn, relieve the individual of any culpability in the decision.
Sidenote: Sorry for the length of the post.