Sure. I'll cite a few (and this took awhile) so bandy it about thoughtfully as I backed up everything I said with scripture. Here's the main ones I noticed (various posts in italics, my answers in red)
is it possible that there are people who are born to damnation?
Why? The bible states that God is not willing any should perish, and that he will draw all men unto him. This BTW, does not necessarily take place in this age. The question presupposes this is the only age for salvation.
It's a question, how can it be non biblical?
My faith in Christ has always led me to believe in free will- that people can CHOOSE to accept God
They can, at the time they are called. Christ clearly stated, “No man can come to me, except the Father which hath sent me draw him” and Paul also asserts that the mind is enmity against God and is not subject to the Law of God. So nobody chooses God by their own initiative.
This was not stated as a fact, it's what they admittedly "thought" was true because they were led to believe it, at least in their own mind so, not sure how it can be non biblical. But that may be a fine line, so no biggie either way, however, do we just throw out the "Whosoever" in John 3/16? We seem to have a discrepancy there. Also, maybe the the Father sent him to draw "everyone"? Just because the mind is against God, most certainly does not equate to us not choosing God by our own initiative. I may not like running across the street to avoid a building fire but I will "choose to" if it's in my general best interest or in this case, to stay alive. Yeah, I think you are way off there.
age of accountability
Say what? Where does the bible say that? Oh, yeah, I know when Jesus hit 12 years of age.
All I see is a 3 word thing there, not even enough to be a statement. I'll have to go back and see if they intended for that to be biblical.
IMO, they (children) are not saved, rather, they are safe and will reside in heaven with the Saints.
Yes that is just an opinion, but one I agree with that they are not saved, but will be given that opportunity when raised physically in the general resurrection. Rather, I want to direct where they are living, for Jesus said, “No man has ascended up to heaven.” They are asleep and so much for the the OT Saints being there in heaven before Christ came (e.g. the parable of the rich man and Lazarus). He clearly said no one ascended. How about after his death? Brings to mind the passage that Peter said in Acts, “...let me freely speak unto you of the patriarch David, that he is both dead and buried, and his sepulchre is with us unto this day.” addressing the issue of the resurrection as it only happened to Christ.
OK, an opinion so you aren't saying that is or is not biblical?
or reject God and face an eternity in the only place He will be absent- Hell.
I know there's been enough of this bandied back and forth, but I want to point out that the real issue in assuming such a place is the belief in an immortal soul. Seems my bible teaches us that the soul that sins shall die. And Paul to Timothy said, “but it has now been revealed through the appearing of our Savior, Christ Jesus, who has destroyed death and has brought life and immortality to light through the gospel.” So, immortality is granted. The traditional view is that hell is the absence of God. Yet, if one suffers forever, they are living in torment and exist as a being. Thus, they are immortal absent of God, or to put it another way, man's spirit by that doctrine can exist without God, something the bible emphatically denies by saying only God is immortal. Any other being is capable of being killed and annihilated.
I won't comment on if anyone is or isn't biblical on that one. I have questions about it myself and there are a few fair possibilities to draw on the issue, and all drawn from the word or....Biblical, if you will. Can't back it up with enough scripture to counter the scripture that would be used against the possibility, but my general opinion is the second death means just that. A time of punishment in the lake of fire, then complete destruction.
Matthew 10/28:
And fear not them which kill the body, but are not able to kill the soul: but rather fear him which is able to destroy both soul and body in hell.
On the other hand God is the only One who knows truly who will end up in Heaven.
Is this the gospel? Dying and going to heaven? The bible says that Jesus preached the gospel of the Kingdom, so that heaven is coming to earth. After the millennium there will be a new heaven and earth where men will dwell with God. I have no doubt that as spirit beings we can have access to it, but our lot is with Christ, who is coming back to rule and reign. Not up on a cloud somewhere.
If the term "dying and going to heaven" were used there, you forgot to quote it.
Either way, I don't see that as non biblical at all, but I do see you assuming that they didn't mean the very heaven you are talking about. I can't read their mind but I can say, it could well be just that.
...also, throughout the NT you have hints that salvation is for The Elect, not everybody. "and the sheep know His voice...", "...He causes all things to come together for the good of those who are called...",
Again, when? This again assumed salvation is only for today, and once one dies or the end of this age comes, that's it. This truly instills a very morbid fear in the “believer”. Me thinks a lot of people came to Christ for fire insurance, not because they want to do “the will of My Father” and love him. In that aspect, I feel sorry for God.
Not sure what you mean there.