I'm exhorting, not criticizing. I asked a question in the OP, from a Biblical perspective. You seem to think you can control what happens in the lives of your kids or grandkids by sheltering them and IMO the Bible does NOT teach that. I'm sure Mary didn't like what Jesus did either, and even though that is an extreme example the fact holds true that only God has full control and we are best to follow His instructions if we expect Him to keep us and our families under His wings. This seems to be much more of an issue for women than men, but it doesn't make it any less applicable because of motherly instinct IMO.
I'm not understanding what you are saying about my kids in school. My kids went to school between 1989 and 2005, and I prepared them all. I don't know what you are not clear on?
Did you not read the link I provided in post 60? I'll post it here again.
http://www.ncsl.org/research/health/state-policies-on-sex-education-in-schools.aspx
I'm pretty sure, as in most forums, it is not kosher to cross post so IF you have something of relevance, feel free to post it here, otherwise I would like to minimize going off topic.