Technically, I think that both YOU and HE are both wrong on that "judgement" point ...
John 3:18 [NASB]
"The one who believes in Him is not judged; the one who does not believe has been judged already, because he has not believed in the name of the only Son of God."
What does this verse mean?
Is Jesus offering an EMPTY PROMISE?
Or as Paul put it ...
Romans 8:1-8 [NASB]
Therefore there is now no condemnation at all for those who are in Christ Jesus. For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has set you free from the law of sin and of death. For what the Law could not do, weak as it was through the flesh, God [did:] sending His own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh and [as an offering] for sin, He condemned sin in the flesh, so that the requirement of the Law might be fulfilled in us who do not walk according to the flesh but according to the Spirit. For those who are in accord with the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who are in accord with the Spirit, the things of the Spirit. For the mind set on the flesh is death, but the mind set on the Spirit is life and peace, because the mind set on the flesh is hostile toward God; for it does not subject itself to the law of God, for it is not even able [to do so,] and those who are in the flesh cannot please God.