Hi there, Rachel; yes, sounds like the lady you mentioned needs to 'gird up the loins of (her) mind', as Paul says. Re. high heeled boots: you probably know more about them, the styles, etc., than I do; my wife did have some, and she likes a bit of heel but doesn't use the really high ones any more (over 50 seems to have that effect, I guess.) She's wonderful . Blessings.