Why not look at what love is ?
Suffering, humility, non self seeking, no evil thoughts, rejoicing in truth ( sin is lies) bearing all things, believing all, hoping all enduring all.
The Apostles of the Lord are examples of that, as is Jesus Christ, who first went through all of that suffering before His death on the cross for us, to follow all of HIs and the Apostles examples, and not talk on forums.
1 Corinthians 4:9 For I think that God hath set forth us the
apostles last, as it were
appointed to death: for we are made a spectacle unto the world, and to angels, and to men.
1 Corinthians 4:11 Even unto this present hour we both hunger, and thirst, and are naked, and are buffeted, and have no certain dwellingplace;
12 And labour, working with our own hands: being reviled, we bless; being persecuted, we suffer it:
13 Being defamed, we intreat: we are made as the filth of the world, and are the offscouring of all things unto this day.
14 I write not these things to shame you, but as my beloved sons I warn you.
1 Corinthians 13:4 Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,
5 Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;
6 Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;
7 Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.
James 5:10 Take, my brethren, the prophets, who have spoken in the name of the Lord, for an example of suffering affliction, and of patience.
11 Behold, we count them happy which endure. Ye have heard of the patience of Job, and have seen the end of the Lord; that the Lord is very pitiful, and of tender mercy.