[__ Prayer __] A Younger Sister & Mother Of Two

[LostSoul]

I have a younger sister, who has recently had her second child. Both of her little ones are boys, both....unfortunately born out of wedlock to two different men. She has traveled a fairly rough road. Her firstborn was born out of a fairly abusive relationship. As for the second....it seems that the young man is a better person than the first and is not one to lay a hand on her that I know of...but he has grown tired of the baggage she carries. Also how she has refused countless times to take some serious action against her first child's father.

Custody wars are being had in regards of her first son....or were. Now with her making some rather rash decisions....the future of both her boys, let alone her...are very uncertain. The family on her side....has tried to get close to her little ones only to have them ripped away. My sister too has been dealing with post pardom in both of her pregnancies. Only thing is...she has NEVER been treated for it and is now running out on her second son leaving him in the care of his father, and his father's family.

Her firstborn is currently under the care of the first son's father's family. Which are not the healthiest of people. However, I will not go into much detail there.

In short...my sister is fleeing from responsibility again. She is moving away, back to the town in which her first child's father lives. Which has a number of us concerned that she might take the road she once did with him. With everyone where they are now....there is nothing we would be able to do to help her should she run into a bind. So I ask that she is kept in some serious thought and prayer. She really needs the Lord in her life and needs to know His love and compassion. For she keeps doing this to herself and her little ones. I am afraid of the repricutions this will have later.

Thank you....

May God Bless You

Danielle

 

[LostSoul]

My younger sister has managed not to depart from her second son. At the same time, she is however struggling with postpardom. So her mental state is rather delicate in terms of rationality. She still has trouble making basic decisions that are important for any mother to make. Her priorities too are not in order, perhaps as they should be.

Along with that comes some outside stresses that are not helping matters such as her boyfriend being laid off and now having to file and receive unemployment. She and he are both currently trying to get things in order somewhat there. My younger sibling has a job here, working alternate days from me with the same client. The only problem is....she is having difficult realizing it is a job. Seeing as it involves working for family she tends to take things for granted.

Her heart, mind, and body are all out of whack....she really needs God's love and guidance. For we are worried that she may sooner or later end up down the same road she originally walked in regards of her firstborn.

So for those who are, please continue to keep her in your thoughts and prayers.

 

[LostSoul]

Another update:

My sibling is still having issues. Although she has begun to come to work....her boyfriend and her are bringing their troubles with them to her work place. Which is the home of my parents. As a result, her boyfriend is no longer welcome due to some unkind words and actions that were exchanged.

In short: my younger sister is between a rock and a hard place. She again is in a position where her own child seems to be being used as leverage against her by the father thereof. This is making it difficult for her to work as well as be a mother.

So I ask prayer is still lifted up. For her and her boyfriend have a lot of growing to do. Seeing also as this is her true first experience hands on full time at trying to be a mom, it is weighing down hard on her.

Thank You....