help me please

[Tpriebe]

I agree
Her own mother told me one regret is doing too much when they were younger, cuz that’s now what my wife wants/saw, made her choke up a bit

That would be your best argument IMO. Without knowing the specific situation, I do know that churches will devour a person’s time if they are faithful, with little to no regard for how so much ministry will affect their families and marriages. So I would use this as my main argument. It’s quite common actually.