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Girl4God

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Hello, I need some advice. I'm trying to get my best friend to go to youth with me. I'm not neccisarially trying to minster to her. I just wanna show her how fun it is and how nice everyone is. But she dosen't seem interested. What should I do?
 
Girl4God said:
Hello, I need some advice. I'm trying to get my best friend to go to youth with me. I'm not neccisarially trying to minster to her. I just wanna show her how fun it is and how nice everyone is. But she dosen't seem interested. What should I do?
if they don't want to go, don't pressure them, if you ask and they say no, leave it at that
 
Pray about it number one - I know that sounds like the common remedy to everything but it ultimately is. Pray that God uses you how He sees fit and you cannot do any better IMHO. Listen to what he says, the message will be there.

I agree with the idea not to pressure her. The worst thing you can do is to continue to pressure her and back her into a corner. My advice besides prayer is to leave it open. You can mention going to youth and such without saying come with me. Who knows, perhaps her heart will want to know more sooner or later and she'll get involved.
 
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