So...I'm a complete outcast in college. I make good grades and all...but...in the social sphere....well let's say things aren't going so well...I'm not the typical young adult in that I'm still afraid to crack out of my shell and take on the adult world, whereas most college kids leap at the opportunity for independence. it's hard for me to fit into the "drink and party" mentality of a vast majority of my peers...every time i think i'm starting to not stick out like a sore thumb, lo and behold...it becomes obvious again that i'm different and strange...People will talk to me, but only so long as I am taking a class with them and they need my help with their homework or with projects, but after that, all communication is cut off...Today, some guy on the street threatened me in a very boisterous manner; it was a hollow threat and amounted to nothing, but it was hurtful and reminded me that I am a total loser and have no place in the social structure not only of college, but of this world. What should I do? Just shrug it off? Try to fit in? I don't know which is worse.