I understand what you are trying to say about labelling, but the following starts to run dangerously close to what I was asking about when you wrote the following:
When a Christian adds a sin-identifier to their title of Christian - homosexual Christian, drug-addicted Christian, ex-con Christian, etc. - they are lying to themselves about who they really are. "Old things are passed away," God says to us in His word, "behold, all things are become new." Spiritually, we are joint-heirs with Christ (Romans 8:17), seated with him in heavenly places (Ephesians 2:6), reconciled to, and at peace with, God (Colossians 1:13-22), made a child of God who can come boldly unto God's throne of grace (Romans 8:15; Hebrews 4:14-16; Hebrews 10:19-22). These and many other things are what are true of the born-again person in whom the Holy Spirit has come to dwell, not their old sin-centered, God-defying identity.
I don't agree. What I describe here is the truth of every born-again believer's identity in Jesus Christ. Only when a believer lives by faith in their spiritual identity in him will they ever enjoy properly the abundant life that he can give to them.
Again, I understand you here, but this is more of a theological construct,
No, it's not a "theological construct"; it's
basic, normal Christianity. That you think it's a mere "theological construct" is extremely unfortunate; for as long as you think this way, you will never fully enjoy what is yours in your Savior.
and to a new Christian this comes off like "you shouldn't admit that you are dealing with struggles in the area of homosexuality."
I write as carefully as I'm able, trying to say exactly what I mean. And so, you will find nowhere in my remarks the statement, "You shouldn't admit that you're dealing with struggles in the area of homosexuality." Instead, what I urged was a settling, by faith, into the spiritual identity that
PrimFinallyFoundGod! has as a born-again person. Too often, especially these days, Christians mix who they are in Christ with their sin, forming an identity that combines these
opposites. But just as mixing a spoonful of mud into a glass of purified water doesn't clean the mud but fouls the water, so, too, mixing one's "new creature" identity with sin also fouls that identity and produces a correspondingly foul result. As I pointed out, "the me I see is the me I'll be."
It's like Faith theology applied to sin, advising she "profess and believe" to be something she may not actually be yet.
The only way any believer comes to experience the truth of who they are in Christ is by living by faith in that truth every day. Paul called this "reckoning it so" (
Romans 6:11). The idea in "reckoning" is that of putting one's full weight on God's truth, trusting oneself to it and living daily in it. Practically, this would look like
PrimFinallyFoundGod! refusing to describe herself as a homosexual Christian and/or a mentally-ill Christian but as a Christian who merely wrestles with these things. It has been a master-stroke of the devil to convince people to frame their identity according to their sin. So long as they do, they will remain conformed to that identity, which is why God in His word takes such pains to describe to His children who they really are in Christ.
I only wanted to say that rather than telling her to envision herself as delivered from her problems by terms of "identity,"
I didn't write this, though. Deliverance from sin is accomplished by more than standing by faith in who one is in Jesus Christ. But doing so, seeing oneself according to God's declaration of who one is in Christ, is definitely a vital part of being delivered from sin.
it might be better to simply encourage her that she can get delivered if she perseveres in seeking God with her whole heart.
Forgive me, but I'm going to be very frank with you: This is an entirely unhelpful Christian platitude you've written here. Over the thirty years I've discipled men, this thinking has done more to bind men in frustration, moral compromise and cynicism toward God than almost anything else. What does it mean to "seek God"? What is it to do so with a "whole heart"? How long must one seek Him? On what basis will she persevere? I will never offer such vague and ultimately empty "advice" to my brothers and sisters in the Lord. You shouldn't, either.
That's something she would better relate to, rather than placing her trust in mere terminology and what might prove to be an empty confession.
See above.