Hey Peter,,,,
I'm starting to have my doubts as to this idea of being born again and if it's even biblical in the way that it's used these days.
I can't remember reading too much about this in the early church.
They spoke about following Jesus and living good lives and doing good, etc.
Some like chapter 8 of Romans and seem to forget all the places where Paul spoke of what not to do.
I don't know.
What do YOU think about this term "born again"?
(not that I don't agree that it's necessary).
You are right to question "born again".
Sadly I think you are right, people miss-understand the emphasis.
Jesus put a simple spiritual reality around finding Him, the gate and walking the path, being the chosen, the elect. He wanted to encourage the core believers to say their enthusiasm was not their own, but that which God himself had planted.
What some have turned it into is a super-spiritual turning a mortal individual into an eternal being who can never fail. I think rather this is filling the heart with love that resolves the contradictions to how we behave in different settings and brings consistency to who we are and how we behave everywhere.
Put this another way. People as they grow, in each situation behave differently to fit in with the politics and emotions of the situation. It results in a situation that the mafia know about, friendly family life with love and encouragement with violent murder in work. If you resolve the individual to one person, the two behaviours destroy each other. So what they are is just a contradiction, every emotion and value system destroyed by the other parts of their life.
God in believers literally fills the whole, so each situation is resolved and consistent, a complete person who is who they believe themselves to be, from their heart to their social display. And what is the foundation of this all, that changes everything? Love through the cross, that conquers and puts in place all selfish desire, selfish ambition, power, politics, superiority. But this power is nothing without faith, and knowing Jesus is the Christ, and the cross is real, and He resolves everything. And this is being born again, starting life with Jesus and God in focus. And it all works, because in the quiet place, where no one else can see, we have Him there. These are real emotional laws, reality.
It is also why showing righteousness destroys us, because it does not reinforce the reality of Christ, but the social show, which encourages sin and self importance and self worth, whether we are aware of it or not. We are so fragile and so susceptible to being corrupted, we have to be alone, and know the internal reality in Him is as real as the external, because that is who we are. God bless you
I have to say I used to think born again was more spiritual, other worldly, but now I see it is both spiritual reality and emotional reality in our lives. It is also why people change, radically, and they can no longer behave certain ways, because they have become a consistent whole in the Lord, not a contradictory set of behaviours that do not add up.