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Peace and blessings to all;

This is my first post here, so I'd like to introduce myself and share a bit about me and what brought me here. I'm not big on revealing personal information on-line, as I have two teen-agers and have always cautioned them on the dangers of speaking to strangers in chat rooms, where I believe many people mis-represent themselves. Admittedly the risk of this happening in this ecumenical religious format should be less, but there are no guarantees. Somethings I do feel comfortable enough to share here are; I am a happily married (23yrs) 44 yr old father of two "mixed blessings".

Of course, by that I mean one of each gender. I've lived all my life in beautiful British Columbia, Canada. was raised bi-lingual in a french community very Catholic. Needless to say, infant baptized along with my 5 siblings, of which 3 are now agnostic (although they all still make the sign of the cross and say grace @ Christmas dinner), 1 is practicing in the United Church, and 1 would be best discribed I think as lapsed Catholic. Which leaves myself, of course being one of the middle, and therefore more rebelious children, I wanted nothing to do with the "religion crammed down my throat" that my parents actually blessed me with.

So I left home early and the church with it. With the coming of children a decade or so later, realizing the importance of instituting good morals in them, I renewed my faith by returning to the church I was baptized and married in, but especially sacramentally, my faith was "luke warm". It was'nt until about 5 yrs. ago, after the "Have you ever read the whole thing?" challenge from a Jehovah's Witness, that I acted upon what I am certain had been previously ignored promptings of the Holy Spirit, that I did in fact read it "cover to cover" and experience spiritual rebirth in it's pages. The Lord does indeed work in mysterious ways, as it was the challenge of this proclaimer of a false gospel that finally triggered me to seek out the true one by setting out to buy and read what turns out to be a protestant N.R.S.V. study bible (at the time I did'nt even know to look for the exclusion of the apochrypha as a first sign.).

This of course turned out to be the most profound of blessings as it challenged many things I had been taught, but forgotten, or ignored out of convenience. All the while I had taken on the responsability of actively teaching the Catholic faith, involving myself in religious education (Catechesis) of children at my church. Which incedently requires people choosing this ministry to uphold the magisterium's teachings while teaching lessons regardless of subjective acceptance or denial of same. This in itself was also a blessing as I struggled with doctrinal differences from my belovedly well thumbed Bible and the teaching of tradition. But here is the kicker' not "most of the time" but every single time I challenged a doctrine as to whether or not it was "infallable when teaching on faith and morals" it was.

The faith part of this became easier as my searches brought me to study the development of canons and dogmas, to realize that before we have a canon we have a creed, and a universal, apostolic church that produced them both. To discover on my journey back that without the communion of saints, living and dead, handing down the faith of the apostles, primarily orally through out history, there would be no "formed" in reformed._______ A couple of years ago I happened upon my first online theology discussion board. In hindsight I wish I had spent more time praying between posts as I try to now, but I have learned that although we continue to disagree theologically, the individuals have become quite dear to me, and I miss the dialougue when I fast from it as I am now. I was combing this site to find a better response to the "free will vs. election" debate when I return to post there and have been reading many of the posts in the RC / Orthodox sub group.

It is amazing to me how similar the individuals seem. I would also compliment the handling of threads by administrators / monitors, the site I frequent has no such blessing and threads get off track easily and often. I'm not sure I'm totally supportive of the Catholics "being sent to their room" as it were, but it looks like a better option than having topic threads break down because something from the Catechism or a church father is submitted. I come with a word of warning for all to be extra vigilant in prayer and thought before posting anything, as what brought me here was that I happened upon some qoutes posted here that had been copied and (in my opinion rightfully) ridiculed on a clearly atheistic site called FSTDT "Fundies say the darndest things".

Be aware that any part of your posts can be edited out and used effectively as a tool against conversion regardless of your denomination. But to Catholics in particular I beg you to consider this quote from my favorite author the "prince of paradox" G.K. Chesterton;_______"The Catholic is scarcely ever frightened of the Protestant picture of Catholicism; but he is sometimes frightened of the Catholic picture of Catholicism; which may be a good reason for not disproportionately stressing the difficult or puzzling parts of the scheme. For the convert's sake, it should also be remembered that one foolish word from inside does more harm than a hundred thousand foolish words from outside. The latter he has already
learned to expect, like a blind hail or rain beating upon the Ark; but the voices from within, even the most casual and accidental, he is already prepared to regard as holy or more than human; and though this is unfair to people who only profess to be human beings, it is a fact that Catholics ought to remember. There is many a convert who has reached a stage at which no word from any Protestant or pagan could any longer hold him back. Only the word of a Catholic can keep him from Catholicism."_______

A few closing thoughts; I deeply respect all human beings regardless of their beliefs and pledge to never degrade or demoralize anyone. I hope I never post a comment that turns anyone away from the Catholic Church or that could be edited to benefit the evil one, and although I'm fully aware that some of my Christian brothers and sisters think I'm crazy to remain Catholic, I can assure you that it is not as a result of taking 1 too many pucks to the head. (see pic) ps.please pay no attention to that round black object in the net behind me. p.s.s; I will probably never make "pro" or "veteran" status here, I already stuggle with the amount of time I spend at the other site but for the next few days anyway I hope to interact with some of you on the topic I listed above from "the catholic room" please join me if you are passionate about it one way or the other. __________also one final thing I am not a big fan of using "Smileys" or emoticons when I dialougue, I think sometimes people get away with degrading or demoralizing anothers opinion buy the use of these tools. You know, after a well thought out and prayed upon post, someone in disagreement posts the "blank stare guy", the "one eyebrow up guy" or the "tongue hanging out guy" all meant in my judgement to devalue the posted opinion of the other. Don't get me wrong I don't have a problem with a smiley face 8-) or a wink ;-) presented in fun, only when mis-used do I see these tools as detrimental to effective dialogue. What do you think?______Peace; Deardogma______

btw; I was'nt able to download my pic for my avatar so I opted for this monty python image of God instead____"OF COURSE IT"S A GOOD IDEA !!!!"
 
I must be honest: I didn't read all of that.
But, WELCOME
 
Thankyou potluck; I have read and pledge to fully comply_____in peace; Deardogma
 
Catholic Crusader said:
I must be honest: I didn't read all of that.
But, WELCOME
I must confess; I didn't read all of your post in the RC forum. 8-)

For our reading impaired readers (no names mentioned :-D ) I took the liberty of formatting you post DD (not editing out anything).

... and welcome to the site. :)
 
Thanks Vic; That was a nice gesture, the post looks so much better after you fixed it up, bless you. I am extremely green when it comes to technology and the "lingo" that goes with it. For the last year or so I thought "ROFL" meant a person was puking!!! Seriously!!! _____peace; D.D.
 
Hello and welcome!

Thanks for your testimony.... I'm a fellow catechist (4th graders this year) and I look forward to reading your posts!

Peace,
S
 
I thought I would share with my new friends a most embaracing event that happened to me today. This won't mean much if you haven't bothered to read my introduction but if you have you'll realize how foolish I feel today. Less than a week ago I introduced myself here by warning everyone to take the time to think and pray before posting. To Catholics in particular I stressed the importance of never saying anything carelessly by submitting a great Chesterton qoute. Today I ventured back to my old site and dialogued with one of the few people that have ever sent a kind word my way there, a woman. A week or so ago I was looking up another individuals site and happened upon a picture she posted there of herself and her family. Never having seen her image before I quiped as we dialogued that I thought she was a "Yummy Mommy" after adding a few more remarks that I thought were harmless fun she replied in a post that my inuendo's were "creepy" and if I didn't "shut up" she'd "sue my @**" Needless to say damage controll was sent into overdrive. I even posted the exherpt from my introduction here admitting what a hypocryte I truly am to preach here to you folks, then turn around and submit something that obviously gravely offended her. I am truly a fool. I most likely will never be able to dialogue with her in quite the same way ever again and to top it off another observer came in to comfort her saying he "wasn't surprised given the source." Heed my advice think and pray before you post! ___in peace Deardogma
 
You felt remorse, you apologized, you asked for forgiveness... you did all you can do from a Biblical point of view. Whether or not you were forgiven by the person you've transgressed doesn't matter as much as knowing you have been forgiven from above.

Mat 12:31 Wherefore I say unto you, All manner of sin and blasphemy shall be forgiven unto men:...

Hold on to that.

We are sinners. We sin. We do it whether it was our intention or not. We strive to be sinless, but our nature, our flesh, struggles with our spirit.

Mat 26:41 Watch and pray, that ye enter not into temptation: the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.

I can't offer you forgiveness, but I can offer you the lyrics to a great song by Audio Adrenaline called, Ocean Floor.

The mistakes I've made, that caused pain
I could have done without
All my selfish thoughts, all my pride
The things I hide
You have forgot about

They're all behind you
They'll never find you
They're on the ocean floor
Your sins are forgotten
They're on the bottom
Of the ocean floor

My misdeeds, all my greed
All the things that haunt me now
They're not a pretty sight to see
But they're wiped away
By a mighty wave
A mighty wave, mighty wave

They're all behind you
They'll never find you
They're on the ocean floor
Your sins are forgotten
They're on the bottom
Of the ocean floor

Take them away, to return no more
Take them away, to the ocean floor
 
Thanks Vic; That was huge for me this morning. I started off checking in there for signs of reconcilliation, only to find my most vocal advesary had posted that "I'd shown my true colours". Believe me my remorce is sincere and won't go away any time soon. Out of courtesy to her I deleted my posts that had been mis-interpreted. Now observers tuning in can form pictures in their minds of me saying some pretty awfull things which I really don't think I did, but I really can't go back and try to defend what I posted in levity and was misinterpreted because I did offend her and rightfully apologized and removed them. What a nightmare!!_____Dear Dogma
 
outcast.jpg

Did your experience make you feel like an outcast, well it certainly peeked my
interest now I'm curious about this mystery poster, you did all but post her name.
If it were me I wouldn't have even brought it to the table because before you
know it everyone is going to want to know who this person is, I don't know how
old you are but you've done what I call thrown the dirt, and once thrown its so
hard to take off.

Thanks,
turnorburn

Dear Dogma said:
I thought I would share with my new friends a most embaracing event that happened to me today. This won't mean much if you haven't bothered to read my introduction but if you have you'll realize how foolish I feel today. Less than a week ago I introduced myself here by warning everyone to take the time to think and pray before posting. To Catholics in particular I stressed the importance of never saying anything carelessly by submitting a great Chesterton qoute. Today I ventured back to my old site and dialogued with one of the few people that have ever sent a kind word my way there, a woman. A week or so ago I was looking up another individuals site and happened upon a picture she posted there of herself and her family. Never having seen her image before I quiped as we dialogued that I thought she was a "Yummy Mommy" after adding a few more remarks that I thought were harmless fun she replied in a post that my inuendo's were "creepy" and if I didn't "shut up" she'd "sue my @**" Needless to say damage controll was sent into overdrive. I even posted the exherpt from my introduction here admitting what a hypocryte I truly am to preach here to you folks, then turn around and submit something that obviously gravely offended her. I am truly a fool. I most likely will never be able to dialogue with her in quite the same way ever again and to top it off another observer came in to comfort her saying he "wasn't surprised given the source." Heed my advice think and pray before you post! ___in peace Deardogma
 
Turnorburn in the second sentence of my last post I stated "This won't mean much if you haven't bothered to read my introduction but if you have you'll realize how foolish I feel today." Clearly you have not bothered to read it as in your reply you say "I don't know how
old you are " the answer to which is available in the first paragraph of my innitial post. I politely suggest your submitted reply to me may have been substantially different if you had. If you do, you'll realize that the curiousity you have of identifying this mystery poster is unwarranted aswell as the individual is not from this site and presumably you have no previous assosiations with her. I do not know her name. I am only aware of her online moniker. I have not posted the other site name. What possible benifet would there be in posting her online name? You have accused me of "throwing dirt". I have stated that I thought my remarks were "harmless fun" but that they "obviously offended her" which was never my intention. You've asked me if I feel like an outcast? Most definately, after several more attempts of sincere apology, expressed remorse and a genuine desire for reconcilliation, sadly she has opted to have no further contact with me. Only serving to verify the validity of the final statement to " think and pray before you post ". ____in peace; Deardogma
 
I have to ask deardogma, you are a 44 year-old happily married man of 23 years, so, when you told your wife that you called a young woman you know from the internet that she was a "yummy mommy" what did she say?
 
Dear Deardogma,

Welcome to a fellow human being, one who has all the capacity of being wonderfully uplifting and glorifying to God one day, and the next, the epitome of stupidity. (Hey, been there and done that, as haven't us all.) I think that you've expressed your embarrassment and your repentence on the unfortuanate remark and now it's water under the bridge.

This is after all the Welcome to the Newbie's thread. If you really feel the need to further discuss the incident, we have a talk and advice forum in which to share things like this.

And, kelldav, it appears as though you are a new member here as well: Wecome to you, too. If Deardogma wants to pursue the discussion regarding the remark, we can look for it in Talk&Advice. Meanwhile, I hope that you also are inclined to share your thoughts about religion in general, Christianity in specific, or just shoot the breeze about any old subject like whether or not the Spurs are going to take the Championship this year. (You bet your sweet bibby they will!) There are many forums, providing appropriate avenues for many subjects of discussion. Looking forward to seeing both you and Deardogma share more in them.
 
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