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Has a mean bully ever shoved you against a locker?

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Has a mean bully ever shoved you against a locker? It has happened to me. :(
 
Once but got him right back and that was the end of that ;)
 
Not exactly, but I was bullied for 2 years in highschool. I had no selfrespect and didn't knew God. I was a skinny dude back then but I got into the gym and gained about 50 pounds and I have God with me now. Now no one messes with me (I'm serious). You know, as christians we are not supposed to counteratack them cuz God will make the proper vengance. What you can do is face them with no fear. Most bullies are actually weak, they are just appeareance.
 
Dave Slayer said:
Has a mean bully ever shoved you against a locker? It has happened to me. :(
I've had a knife pulled on me, etc. but not shoved that I recall. My children however, were shoved against the brick wall of the church by the deacon children at a church where my husband was pastoring. The assault was sever enough we thought we would have to take the eldest of our sons to the ER. Does that qualify for what you are asking about?

Is so, how can I be of help?
 
I've been on both sides of this. First as the bullied and then as the bully. In my case I was afraid until one day I fought back and saw I was pretty good at it. I went too far though and became what I despised.
 
Dave Slayer said:
GojuBrian said:
Dave needs karate. :yes

Why do I need karate when I have the slayer slam? :D
Why do you need a slayer slam when your Daddy is God and He is always with you? ;)
 
Yeah, in the 7th grade.

Sometime later, he was sitting in the back of me during home room before the teacher came in and was hitting me in the back of the head with his pencil :mad

I got so mad (it hurt) and turned around and he said, "Aww, whatcha gonna dooooooo" as he wiggled his fingers at me and began to :lol , along with half the other kids...

He hit me again, and the last thing I remember was the teacher from the other room was slapping me and screaming my name. I looked down, and I had this kid in in his seat, in a headlock,... and his face was red and his body was limp... I just let go of him and walked out of the classroom and decided to take the rest of the day off.

It's the last time that boy ever said boo to me...
 
When I was in middle school I was. Then I gained some muscle mass and stopped caring about little things and concentrated on school. I wasn't messed with because I was a big guy. I had long hair my last 2 years of high school and that didn't go over to well with some people. I didn't really care though. I ended pulling some bullies off a friend and slamming them against a wall. Neither my friends or I had problems with bullies for the remainder of our high school careers. :-)

There is always bullies online, but they are easy to ignore. :yes
 
I had to face down a girl bully. Which was rather hard because she was about a foot taller than I was. One of the other girls, who was too much a pipsqueak to fight her own battles, told the girl that I had called her the universal bad name for a girl. I hadn't, the third girl was just trying to make trouble. Then, because I went to a small school, the whole school knew that L.L. was going to beat me up at the football game that night. I had lots of people tell me not to go, but I was tired of being bullied.

So, at the game, when LL came up to me and asked me if I called her (that name), I said:

"No, as a matter of fact I didn't. Julie is just telling everyone that I did because she is mad at me and is too much of a chicken to do anything about it herself. Basically, she is using you. If you want to be used, go ahead and beat me up. You know you can, and there won't be a thing I can do about it. Just let me let (my best friend who was loyally standing beside me) hold my glasses for me."

I then took off my glasses and gave them to my best friend.

LL looked down at me and said, "You're all right." She then walked out of the circle of girls that had appeared out of nowhere and then, just as suddenly they disappeared.

That was...(let me do some math)...39 years ago, and I remember it as clearly as if it just happened.

I was never bullied again.

:D Guess the truth really did set me free.
 
The old "let my friend hold my glasses" ploy!

Well, you showed courage! I salute you!!
 
walter said:
The old "let my friend hold my glasses" ploy!

:lol Yep, yep, just like in the movies! Only it really wasn't a ploy. I was blind as a bat without them, and the beating that LL could have given me would have been nothing to the trouble that I would have been in if I came home with broken glasses.
 
Im a WHIMP!!!! Total scaredy cat. The funny thing is I look like I'd be tough lad :lol :lol
I find it hilarious when people tell me that, I'm too soft for my own good...

I have never bene bullied like that. Only small stuff, maybe a name called, cussed out once or twice,
poke with like a ruler or something. Little stuff.

Dave Slayer... to be honest you seem that you would be the Bully rather then the bullied. :ohwell :(
 
handy said:
I had to face down a girl bully. Which was rather hard because she was about a foot taller than I was. One of the other girls, who was too much a pipsqueak to fight her own battles, told the girl that I had called her the universal bad name for a girl. I hadn't, the third girl was just trying to make trouble. Then, because I went to a small school, the whole school knew that L.L. was going to beat me up at the football game that night. I had lots of people tell me not to go, but I was tired of being bullied.

So, at the game, when LL came up to me and asked me if I called her (that name), I said:

"No, as a matter of fact I didn't. Julie is just telling everyone that I did because she is mad at me and is too much of a chicken to do anything about it herself. Basically, she is using you. If you want to be used, go ahead and beat me up. You know you can, and there won't be a thing I can do about it. Just let me let (my best friend who was loyally standing beside me) hold my glasses for me."

I then took off my glasses and gave them to my best friend.

LL looked down at me and said, "You're all right." She then walked out of the circle of girls that had appeared out of nowhere and then, just as suddenly they disappeared.

That was...(let me do some math)...39 years ago, and I remember it as clearly as if it just happened.

I was never bullied again.

:D Guess the truth really did set me free.
That was great, thanks for sharing.
 
Dave Slayer said:
Has a mean bully ever shoved you against a locker? It has happened to me. :(

That happened to me in middle school once, by a girl who'd been picking on me a lot. She also spit in my hair and wrote on me with permanent marker, and once she dragged me around by my backpack.

Kids can be so cruel. :(
 
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