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Help... Need advice.....

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GarrettS.

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I need help... I am in love with a girl.... yes, I do LOVE her... so much, I really can't explain it... I think about her all the time, and I love being with her...........................

The only problem is that we live an hour away. I cant drive for another year........ She gets to drive after me... I rarely get to see her, and I HATE THAT!!!

My heart Litteraly Aches when im not with her... I love her so much...


We both decided that we didnt want that whole long distance relationship thing so we arent going out......


I love her... ( 1 cor ... 13 is it???)... i have compared it to that, and yes, i do love her...

I WANT HER TO BE HAPPY... with or without me....



I pray around 50 times a day (litteraly) about this...

What should I do.
 
1. Keep up the Good Work. 8-) No matter what you feel, you absolutely must keep Christ as the Focus.

2. Seek some of your local elders. They can pray with you.

3. I don't mean to say you don't understand your heart, but just recognize that Just because you can pass the 1 Corinthians 13 test on love, this doesn't mean it's a Romantic love. The Love Described in that passage speaks of Agape. It may verywell be that God is showing his love for her through you. Just don't let your heart hang from your sleeve too much. 8-)
 
1. And contrary to Brutus/HisCatalyst :wink: I think that you would be able to tell if it is romantic love or not.

2. Agreeing with Brutus/HisCatalyst, you should keep God in focus. Don't do anything that would jepordize your relationship with the Divine. I probably would. I'm not proud of it, though.

3. Make sure that you tell her how much you love her. Love is the strongest force in the universe. Since even "God is Love."

he who is not loving did not know God, because God is love. (1 John 4:8)
 
Just keep praying to God, maybe Gods not giving her to you cause your focusing all your attention to her instead of God =P hehe, just dont get too obsessed...but i do hope for all the best =)
 
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