help w/ boy

[Joey]

Firstly, sorry : to kind of copy the name of the thread entitled "help w/ girl".
This topic has nothing to do with that topic other than the name.
Anyway so.....
There is this guy I know. He's a mate but not a really great mate. I have fancied him for over a year and all my mates say I should ask him out.
I don't know whether to or not as I don't want it 2 make things uncomfortable. Also I hardly ever see him so it's not like I would have much time to patch up an OK, friendly relationship.
Please someone give me some advice because I am seeing him soon and I'm absolutely petrified.

 

[Punk-O-Rama]

Edited: Do a little research next time.

 

[Medea]

Hey Joey,

I only have a couple of things to point out. Firstly, ignore the things your friends say about this unless it's serious advice. Some friends like to take any opportunity for pushing people together even if it may not really be the best idea.

Second, if you're doubting the idea, it sounds to me like you don't particularly want to do it. If you hardly ever see him, it won't be easy. If you get along with him well and have a good connection, then sure, go for it! Otherwise my advice would be to spend some time getting to know him better, and see what happens. Maybe you'll end up realising you don't like him, or maybe you'll end up liking him even more.

In the end, it's all up to you. Pray about it, think about it, take it slowly if you're unsure. Good luck!

 

[rover]

I reckon thast you should know him better first, then make your move. Also im more of a risk taker so my advice would be to go for it!! hehe, cause later on in life you dont wanna go regretting not doing anything or not taking a chance...well thats my advice, the best one i can offer you is: listen to your heart and pray to God about it. =)