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christianguitar
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Hello everyone,
This is my very first post here (I know, I should have introduced myself in the other "New member" forum first ... but this is actually a prayer request).
I am a christian man and a father. My son is 14 years old - and my request for prayers and advice is regarding him (and me as a father). Since he was about 10 years old he became aware of that he was attracted to other boys - as we (men) "normally" are attracted to girls. He is saved (and was baptized last year) - and he loves Jesus. I can see that he is a bit 'different' than other boys of his age; by that I mean he's a very sensitive boy (emotionally) and also a bit feminine in his 'body language'. He is a very kind boy - and I love him very much.
I personally belive that God created us as man and woman and that they belong together, but since the fall of man in the garden of Eden - the whole creation became corrupted because of sin entering the world. I believe that because of that - sometimes people are for instance born with sickness, handicaps, or develops different soul-related problems or distorted self-image.
How can I help my son - in becoming what God has created and called him to be? I don't belive in the tactics of "threatening" or scaring him with what God's word says about homosexuality... even though he today don't want to change (as he himself have told me). Neither do I believe in trying to introduce him to girls ..... they don't attract him today, and it won't help in whatever the root cause is. I'm searching for a more wise (and loving) way to help him.
What do I do? Please pray for him - and me - and that I get wisdom of God in this...
This is my very first post here (I know, I should have introduced myself in the other "New member" forum first ... but this is actually a prayer request).
I am a christian man and a father. My son is 14 years old - and my request for prayers and advice is regarding him (and me as a father). Since he was about 10 years old he became aware of that he was attracted to other boys - as we (men) "normally" are attracted to girls. He is saved (and was baptized last year) - and he loves Jesus. I can see that he is a bit 'different' than other boys of his age; by that I mean he's a very sensitive boy (emotionally) and also a bit feminine in his 'body language'. He is a very kind boy - and I love him very much.
I personally belive that God created us as man and woman and that they belong together, but since the fall of man in the garden of Eden - the whole creation became corrupted because of sin entering the world. I believe that because of that - sometimes people are for instance born with sickness, handicaps, or develops different soul-related problems or distorted self-image.
How can I help my son - in becoming what God has created and called him to be? I don't belive in the tactics of "threatening" or scaring him with what God's word says about homosexuality... even though he today don't want to change (as he himself have told me). Neither do I believe in trying to introduce him to girls ..... they don't attract him today, and it won't help in whatever the root cause is. I'm searching for a more wise (and loving) way to help him.
What do I do? Please pray for him - and me - and that I get wisdom of God in this...