Gabby said:
Hmmm. A marble bath with golden fixture and a plasma TV is a no-no? What about a molded plastic bathtub with dripping faucets and a ten year old thirteen inch TV?
Apples and oranges. Why waste money on a marble bath with golden fixtures and a plasma TV when a molded plastic bathtub with dripping faucets and a ten year old thirteen inch TV will do?
This is a matter of excess versus what is needed.
Gabby said:
He wanted to be a minister of the gospel, and he wanted to be a millionaire. He is both of those things today. Should not Christians praise God for answering his prayers rather than condemning this man because God answered his prayers?
If he became a millionaire through his ministry I would be highly suspicious. But really, what kind of prayer is it to ask God to be a millionaire? Look at all of Christ's warnings about riches and what they do to a person. Look at what Solomon asked for -- wisdom, not riches. What about what Proverbs states:
Pro 30:7 Two things I ask of you; deny them not to me before I die:
Pro 30:8 Remove far from me falsehood and lying;
give me neither poverty nor riches; feed me with the food that is needful for me,
Pro 30:9 lest I be full and deny you and say, "Who is the LORD?" or lest I be poor and steal and profane the name of my God.
Gabby said:
I learned to pray before I give anything to anybody now.
Why? Because people can be ungrateful and mean in return? What of the one leper that turned to thank Christ for his healing? We are to clothe, feed and give drink to those in need. While we ought to use discernment, I don't think we ought to have to pray about it.
Gabby said:
Wealth, in abundance or the lack there of, is not really a good meter for judgment.
No, but what one's money is spent on is -- one's heart is where one's treasure is.
handy said:
And, sure enough, I watched as his chair batteries miraculously recharged enough to get him into the State Liquour store that was in the same shopping center. It turned out to be a great teaching moment for the kids.
What did the kids learn? To not give money to someone in a wheelchair because they might be lying?
If we don't know for sure what someone may spend money on if we help them out, it is our moral obligation to help out. What they end up spending it on is really their business and if they lie to get our money, that's on their heads, not ours. We are to be obedient and help the poor. And to be sure, as handy pointed out, there are other ways of going about that to ensure the money goes to good things.