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Hubby was in a wreck

Nikki

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My husband, Steve, was in an accident Sunday morning coming home from work (he works 3rd). I got the call a little after 8am that morning. When I got there, he was in the CT scan and still kind of out of it. He lost a chunk of skin and tissue about the size of a baseball from his elbow. His entire elbow bone was exposed and there was one large vein laying right on top of the vein that miraculously didn't get severed. They said he was extremely lucky that it didn't sever it.

He was on one highway. He was getting ON to the ramp that connects to another highway. An ambulance was on the right side of the ramp responding to another accident. Steve didn't see the ambulance until he turned that corner and by then it was too late. It was raining and when he locked his brakes, he skid right into the ambulance. He blacked out as soon as he hit and he woke up when they were taking him out of his truck (another ambulance had responded by this time). Thankfully nobody else on the scene was hurt. Nobody was in the ambulance or anything.

The cop said that he should have been able to see the ambulance, but Steve said he didn't until it was too late because of the curve. There was no cop at the bottom of the ramp, no flares, nothing. The doctor told us that someone was killed from the exact same thing happening recently. Steve's work called and said that four other guys almost wrecked in the same spot that morning. One came very close to plowing right into the cops car. They said there was NO WAY to see the accident until it was too late.

We're lucky that the worst injury was his elbow. Not sure if there is permanent nerve damage or not. His ring finger and pinky are numb and he can't move them correctly. He may have to have skin grafting done on the future. He also had a big knot on his head and lots of cuts and bruises. Today his leg has started bothering him also.

I'm pretty put out with the hospital and how they handled things. His bone was left completely exposed from 8am until 6pm. They attempted stitching it up twice before calling plastic surgery down to do it. They stictched it, unstitched it. Stitched it again, unstitched it again. Finally they called Plastic Surgery down to fix it. I plan on sending a letter letting them know how dissapointed I am with the care he received.

His truck is totaled. We didn't have full coverage on it because of how old it was. Just liability. We called some places and the most they quoted was $55. Our neighbor that towed it home for us drove it around town today and someone offered him $200 for it. We took it.

Please include him in your prayers. I had to take him back to the Plastic Surgeon yesterday because he had bled through the bandaging. They changed it at 11am and it was soaked through again by 4pm yesterday. Then last night he started running a fever. Of course I immediately thought infection. It broke in the middle of the night. I changed the dressings and so far, there is no bleeding...just oozing. At least the bleeding has stopped.

He thought he was going to go back to work tomorrow, but since he was running a fever and all, the doctor called me a little bit ago and he won't be going back until sometime after July 5th.

Please keep us in your prayers.

Oh, here are pictures of his truck and one of his arm:

http://share.shutterfly.com/action/welc ... ZM&notag=1


After seeing his truck, I don't know how he didn't end up with more injuries. God was obviously watching out for him.
 
My family and I will pray for your husband and your family.
 
Thank God for your Christain spirit :D It helps a great deal at the time like this.
 
Your husband, you and your whole family will be in my prayers. Thank God he was he was alright.
 
Nikki said:
gingercat said:
My family and I will pray for your husband and your family.

Thank you! We're just thankful that he's alive!
Yes Nikki God is good all the time. And he is not lucky, there is no such thing.
He Is Blessed By God, Amen. God had him protected. I am very happy for you and your family.
 
whew!

I think the term "lucky" in this instance is just a figure of speech, a general colloquialism. Nikki, you and your family will be in our prayers as well. May Almighty God, Jehovah Rapha, heal your husband speedily... in Jesus' name!

Amen... (Take holy communion at home Nikki, with your husband. Remember, the bread, being the emblem of Christ's striped and broken body, procured divine healing for your husband.)

...tetra :fadein:
 
Re: whew!

tetrasonicwave said:
I think the term "lucky" in this instance is just a figure of speech, a general colloquialism. Nikki, you and your family will be in our prayers as well. May Almighty God, Jehovah Rapha, heal your husband speedily... in Jesus' name!

Amen... (Take holy communion at home Nikki, with your husband. Remember, the bread, being the emblem of Christ's striped and broken body, procured divine healing for your husband.)

...tetra :fadein:
Well in no way was I putting down what she sai, Nikki is a fine Christian on this board. We as Christians are assigned angels to protect us by God according to His will. And if it is not our time to go we won't, and that is a blessing from our Lord. There are times when I almost died. About 5 years ago I fell asleep at the wheel on the Ohio turnpike. With my mom grand mother uncle and a aunt in the car. God or an angel woke me up as the care traveling at a high rate of speed started to leave the road. Scared everyone almost to death in the car. I was able to snatch the car back on the road, and get safely to Philadelphia. that was a blessing. It was not luck. And there have been other times that I almost lost my life. but I am here.
 
Oh gosh Nikkie, his knee looks really bad. I pray he will recover really quickly and that everything will work out for the best.
 
My God Nikki, his arm is very, very injured, I really feel for him and I am going to pray for him right now.
 
God Bless you and your family Nikki. Have Hope and faith for a good healing without complications, and much better medical care than at first.

From the sound of your testimony here, you just might be able to get the city or state (depending on what police force handled the previous incident) to compensate for the damages done by that accident your husband was involved in, and for lost wages, etc. , since there were no cones, or officers directing traffic, or warnings in place so as to avoid the hazard your husband was victim too. Talk to a lawyer who specializes in accidents.

Hope for the best.
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Yikes, that's horrible, but I'm so glad he's ok. Praise GOD!

I am putting you all on our prayer list tomorrow night. :angel:
 
Adding your husband to my prayers. Bad weekend this is the 3ed case of a related matter from just this last weekend. May you find much comfort in Jesus in this time.
 
this hit me so weird because my uncle was in a wreck last sunday and he's okay but hit a few people in one car and they're still recovering.
i looked at your husbands truck photo and can't believe he's alive. that's so frightening to look at it makes me scared to drive but i know i will and just realize these wrecks happen. :sad :sad
 
Nikki,

I am sorry for your family, and I praise God that he wasn't injured more severly. You all have my prayers. The Lord bless you.


lovely
 
I haven't been online much these past two weeks and just saw this thread. Nikki, I'm glad your husband is doing ok for the most part... I'll pray for his recovery and for you & your family. God Bless!!
 
ARGH!!! I had this really long reply to all of you and I lost it! I want to scream now!

Let me make this short then... :-?

Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers. Steve is doing really good. He's got permanent nerve damage in his arm in one area. Still having trouble with his ring and pinky finger and also his other wrist. Here's an updated picture of his arm:
 
Based on people's reactions to the pictures, I decided it was best if I didn't look at them. I have a tendancy to feel whatever pain I see. I don't know if it's a God given gift or curse. I have prayed for you and your family and will continue to do so whenever it crosses my mind.
 
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