I'm doomed

[Corn Pop]

and start making arrangements to marry her.
Anything else is not doing what is right.

Do you think I need human beings to be a witness and I need to sign a piece of paper the government recognises for me to be officially married in God's eyes.?

Who married Adam and Eve?. Is Adam and Eve sinners because another human being didn't officially marry them?.

It's what's in the heart that God sees. How many people are officially married where one of them inside hesitated and really didn't know if it was the right thing to do, I'm sure there is alot of them in this world, but they are not sinless for sleeping in the same bed just because a human said I now pronounce you husband and wife?

 

[Who Me]

Do you think I need human beings to be a witness and I need to sign a piece of paper the government recognises for me to be officially married in God's eyes.?

Who married Adam and Eve?. Is Adam and Eve sinners because another human being didn't officially marry them?.

It's what's in the heart that God sees. How many people are officially married where one of them inside hesitated and really didn't know if it was the right thing to do, I'm sure there is alot of them in this world, but they are not sinless for sleeping in the same bed just because a human said I now pronounce you husband and wife?

You have three to convince that you are a permanent couple.
As you rightly say God knows what is in all our hearts.
Then there is the legal system, currently only those married under the law of the land have the rights and responcibilities of bein married.
Lastly there is the society of people you live and work among.
You claim to be Christian. That is hat is against your name on the forum.
How are you showing that you are a Christian to your girlfriend, to her parents, your parents and to the people you live among.
Does what God sees match what you are doing?

 

[Corn Pop]

How are you showing that you are a Christian to your girlfriend, to her parents, your parents and to the people you live among.
Does what God sees match what you are doing?

Well her dad is dead and she doesn't talk to her mother so I cannot show them that I am Christian.

My parents do not know anything because they don't need to know anything and there is nothing to tell them. It's not like I'm getting married or having a baby.

I am showing my "friend" by staying with her and getting to know her more and not splitting, and treating her well as we are both getting to know each other. I didn't run and that's the point.

That is all.

 

[Prycejosh1987]

As a individual who acknowledges the Most High and trusts Jesus Christ I have a situation.

I had a meaningful overnight relationship with someone and im not worried or care about that situation because I know all God cares about is the heart of man, but my heart is not commited and I don't want a relationship or commitment. So in Gods eyes that is divorce.

Im a sinner because my heart is not committed.

There is no problem in not wanting to be committed. If you want to remain single, amen. But if you ant to get married and are not being committed then it is a sin.

 

[citrus]

When it comes to companionship and getting along I like this woman but there is one thing. I'm not too judgemental but thee is one thing that really turns me off, it's when she talks and smiles because she has some missing and rotting teeth it's just really not cool and I just don't find her attractive because of that, I understand no one is perfect and we all have flaws, but this is just too unattractive for me. Something like teeth is the most important when it comes to attraction, you have to want to kiss your partner , and like your partner when they laugh and you laugh, not be put off everytime they talk and smile. It's women's beauty and attraction.

Teeth won't always be there. So be nice. I had crooked teeth for the longest time. I hated it. Saved up money (dentist have to be rich), bought my own braces and had 8 teeth pulled. People in the US don't find crooked teeth attractive, but in some Asian places and places over the world go crazy for them. I didn't know that until after. My teeth aren't perfectly white. A lot of people with white over do it. It doesn't look natural. I might get it done sometime. I don't know. It cost money and has to have touch ups. So idk yet. People in other countries have different views on what teeth should look like to be attractive. Every culture is different and painful. What if she had perfect straight white teeth and broke a tooth? I broke a tooth and had to wait forever to get it fixed. One day you will be wearing dentures and have lots of dental work done. Yes it is important to take care of teeth and hygiene. I get that. Some guys didn't like my teeth and look at me now. I think love goes beyond attraction. Things change. It is what is on the inside that matters. I mean is she a chain smoker? Maybe she just needs better health and working on getting there. My mom has a black lower tooth. She looks like barbie. I love her and I don't care. She is bigger, but loosing weight here and there. Things are going to change. Our ideal of beauty needs to change and people fillers and photoshop and stuff is overrated. That isn't natural. It doesn't even look like them. Be open minded. Do you like her, love her? It is important what is on the inside. Maybe you will break a tooth or have a crooked one. Maybe your thiriod will stop working and cause you to gain 40 lbs. Having eachother and loving eachother, taking healthy steps and not trying to fir the mold is most important in life. It is a journey. True in to me see is last longer and is more pleasureable. Not saying your sinning, sin is pleasureable at the moment but doesn't last it won't satisfy the place in your heart where God is supposed to be. Love yourself and love others. If you love her be committed and faithful. Sometimes just like you it isn't always attractive. That is reality.

 

[Corn Pop]

This a stone age thread so I dont care anymore. She told me she was still in love with her ex boyfriend. They broke up but she still had feelings for him and him for her, and I met him a couple times as he started visiting more , and he was good dude and they had a connection, so i leave and got out of there, and it's good they got back together, I think they happily married now.

 

[Anaphora]

I'm not judging anyone. I don't know all the facts on this situation. I doubt there's fornication. James chapter 6 to document, Christian people are to plant seeds for God, its sharing Gods truth. Many people are biblically illiterate and going to hell. Ephesians 3:7. Wherefore I was made a minister, according to the Gift of the grace of God given unto me by the effectual working of His power. If Jesus gave you holy spirit. You have gifts He expects to materialize. Like producing fruit. Jesus isn't going to find it funny, toying with women emotions??. Im not judging anyone. Let me ask you something. Have you ever took the seed out of the barn??. Haggia 2:19. Is the seed yet in the barn? Yea, as yet the vine, and the fig tree, and the Pomegranate, and the olive tree, have not brought forth: from this day will I bless you. Do you want Gods blessings??. You might have money or materials. Im speaking wisdom and knowledge. That's rich my brother. We're going to face Jesus at 7th trump. Accountability is coming. Jesus is going to want know why the seed never left the Barn??!!. Will there be rewards or correction??. Think about it.

 

[citrus]

We are both on the same page and she knows there is no way I am misleading her and we both are just getting to know each other and taking it slow. We enjoy each other's companionship.

At least I didn't split after one night like other dudes do. I want to try make it work. Good things take time.

Some Christians also think a human being must be the one who marries two people and they must sign a piece of paper and be recognised by the government to be officially married, yet scripture says The Father, Son, and Spirit are the 3 witnesses, not any man. I don't care about traditional marriage. I think it's a complete joke.

No sin is worse that other sins. A sin is still a sin whatever it is. And even I get attacked for being honest and confessing, instead of being attacked, Christians could understand all I had to do is repent. It's not the end of the world.

Notbtrue. Even blasphemy of the holy spirit is different from other sins. It just meansvyou need a savior
One sun leads to many more sins. You are making bonds with her you should not be making. It's wrong. Your spreading your self so thin it eventually will cone down to follow the world and decipted heart or gi after what you were created for. Intimacy with your wife which isn't always sex. In to me see. It is a strong bind of companuship. It's work. It's commitment. If your not ready for that you shouldn't even be dating anyone. The whole point of dating is to find someone to be your priority and commit to that union. Not friends with benefits. Your not even really friends because you both have your desires out of order. Your first love should always be God. Hus way us so mych more beautiful and better. It us better to be alone than fornication. You don't respect or trust God with your life. One minute your guilt and the next minute you try to rationalize it and right it off. Your to desensitized with the world and what it thinks is good. You gotta get rid of the flesh. It's death. The kind of death you don't want robbing your life. Your not abiding in that. The two become one and then when you start to desire a wife it is taking advantage of her and thinking well it is time to settle down with the old hen. Your not ready anyway. Abide. The goal if the Christian life is not to be perfect. Only God through Jesus can make you acceptable. The goal of the Christian life is to glorify God ABIDE and mature, seek, acknowledge and enjoy God's presence. If you do you really will benefit from God's favor and blessing, but you won't get true blessings going down the path your self gratification will leave. Then things will start to get challenging. You can't excuse it away. We are without excuse. It is fun for a season and then it will take you places you don't want to go and be harder to get away from that lifestyle. Where is your soul heading. You want it more. You are conflicted. Make the changes in your approach to life. You don't respect yourself or Gid if you don't and right now death and spiritual death which is worse is consuming your entire life over something you weren't meant for. It will get harder. You have to be strong and make the right choice because there is a world of innocent, vulnerable people in the world that watch your life and will follow your life and your deceptions will be blood on your hands. It sounds harsh. But it is straight up truth. You are making cycles in your life that need to be broken. Don't give up on yourself and change the road your heading on. Get some accountability with a pastor.

 

[citrus]

Sorry for the grammatical errors

 

[Josef]

Hey All,
Dan, Dan, Dan, this was last posted to in October of 2019. Is there any reason this has been brought back to the front page?
Are you still seeing this lady?

Keep walking everybody.
May God bless,
Taz

 

[Corn Pop]

Hey All,
Dan, Dan, Dan, this was last posted to in October of 2019. Is there any reason this has been brought back to the front page?
Are you still seeing this lady?

Keep walking everybody.
May God bless,
Taz

Lol. No. Its a stone age thread that someone decuded to comment on. This thread is finished. Nothing more to say. The woman is happily married now and im happy for her. The end.

 

[Christian Saboteur]

I can only imagine what the church lady would say from SNL back in the day.