Correction , even exhortation, with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs, is seriously lacking.
The rules prevent honest answers most places, most forums, most religious groups - the groups are adhering to, following another voice, and like Keith Green's song - "Jesus knocked at the door; we left Him out in the rain"... and so on.
The wise man loves criticism - any criticism not just friendly criticism.... (see again Proverbs)....
Instead of being wise, everyone continues basking in the error of their ways along with everyone else not being corrected.
The forums are a lot different today than they used to be , and NOT in a good way.... a lot of mushy mush..... "get along" attitude, and if someone attempts to correct a very serious error even, soft pedal it, make it go away....
Iron sharpens iron. What ruins the discussions, in my opinion, at least one side of the coin, is idolatry.
Somebody mentioned in another thread, maybe it was you, that they got kicked off of a reformed forum for questioning a standard reformed doctrine. I've had a similar forum experience, though, it was a while ago on another forum far far away in another Galaxy.
In my case, I wasn't kicked off, but posts were deleted down to having no real substance. They just removed scripture. I didn't even post what the scripture said. I just gave book, chapter, and verse for my thoughts as I was sharing them. It had to do with Hades and OT saints, being born again, baptism with the holy Spirit. It was such a foreign idea to this lead Moderator, that the arguments were not comfortably laid out for him to go down the old reformed responses list and tell his standard pat answer. I agree that it can be more difficult to have a good discussion with some reformed believers if you take them out of their comfort zones. They are used to beating up on liberal theology, which is mostly idolatry and easy to refute with scripture. In other places It's hard to get a discussion off the ground in any meaningful kind of way. That's the other side of the coin mentioned above.
I understand forums that are strict, to promote good discussions, but sometimes that can be misused. As I believe that it was in my case as mentioned above. I just left.
I was a moderator for a while on another forum about twenty years ago. It's not an easy job. They were strict and weren't afraid to kick people off that were disruptive and offered nothing but the same old bumper sticker slogan. When I'm reading some posts here, I'm thinking... (Yep, you'd be gone).
Another reason why I wouldn't be a good Moderator.
The problem is people aren't perfect. It's definitely out of season, and most people who hear or read what we say are not even going to care what it says. They are just looking for a sound board to bounce their slogans off of.
Anyways, there are a few to be pulled out of the fire. That's they way to look at it. There are some who genuinely want to learn, and want to be challenged in what they believe is the truth. That way if there are any bugs in the system, we can have them pointed out, removed and/or fixed, hence, Iron sharpen iron.
I try to be kind, even when I don't want to. If I get kicked off a forum, then maybe it was meant to be. The cost, always the cost.