While I know a wide variety of people, I hang mainly with Christians. And, since there's few Baptists in the crowd, I'd say that my Christian circle is about 60% people who drink moderately and 40% people who do not drink at all.
Not once, in the entire 50 years of my life, have I been in the company of any Christian friends where anyone was drunk or even buzzed.
Now... as for pot smoking.... I've asked this question before... does anyone smoke pot and not get high? Can someone eat an Alice B. Toklas and not get a buzz?
There is certainly a difference in social moderate drinking and drunk.
It's been my experience that alcohol seems to be a magnifier of someones disposition. A violent person becomes more so, an abusive person becomes more so, and friendly person becomes more so....ect... However, as I recall, Marijuana does not seem to have the same effect in this regard. It seems to effect people about the same. I also don't recall the ability to get any more or less high on it, but who knows if it's stronger these days or not.
I see these stories about medical marijuana clinics that carry some wide verity with what they claim are various effects, ?? I suppose, but as I recall it was all about the same.
Why do some people graduate to other drugs, or keep using marijuana?? I don't know, but I would not blame the substance for that. I would disagree that pot is a gate-way drug or that it causes addiction. I think there are far deeper issues there, and I think the public at large has been highly (no pun intended) misinformed of the alleged dangers of marijuana.
If you asked me which substance should be illegal; marijuana or alcohol in terms of what I know from my own experiences....easy Alcohol. Hands down. While alcohol can be limited in it's effects based on intake, it's effect in terms of someone being drunk is far more damaging that the effects of marijuana.
But then, we kind of come full circle on this issue of sin. Is moderate use of a drug any less sinful than heavy use? I mean can we really categories using drugs legally or not? In many respects can we morally say that some people should not use something because they have a problem where as it's OK for others since they seem in control?
... morally No. Practically? OK sure.
I did hear a comedian make a an interesting observation about medical marijuana. He said he got a prescription for pot to cure his anxiety...........for being busted for using pot.
very telling.
I have an older brother who is kind of like the "Spicoli" from the movie "Fast Times"
He's older now, but he was a pot-head for a long time and I suspect still indulges from time to time, but he does not drink or use other harder illicit drugs.
Once a few years ago we had a family gathering at my parents house. They live on a lake, and have a large deck. I'm standing out there just loking out and my brother come up to me and says; "I buried some pot out there." "really?" I said. "and why would you do that?" He says; "because I come out here to go fishing, duh! ......"And this is logically connected why?" I asked.
"Because I don't want to get busted with it in case I get pulled over; he says....."So why don't you go dig it up?" I asked.
My brother....."I forgot where I buried it."
..Kids. Nancy was right. Just say NO. You'll be better off. Just say NO.