Marriage and sex

[humble soul]

Ok
Touching the void
Will follow up.

Yeah I watched some scenes. Looks good..

 

[Prycejosh1987]

My question is: should I follow the lesser evil and find a girl to have sex with and feel another person's skin.
To soothe the pain or should I keep waiting for the one?

Neither, you should go and get your girlfriend. The one doesnt exist and it exists in everyone, anyone can be "the one". A person can make any relationship work, i truly believe that.

 

[marrea]

Exercise....become a gym junkie...or jog 10km a day. Push it hard if your libido Is driving you crazy.

become a gym junkie..

i thought that was funny haha, i am also struggling with lust and i think i am going to become more of a gym "junkie" hahaha

 

[Link1983]

Neither, you should go and get your girlfriend. The one doesnt exist and it exists in everyone, anyone can be "the one". A person can make any relationship work, i truly believe that.

Thanks! And I agree! No right in romantic the sense. But maybe God has one selected?

 

[SovereignGrace]

I'm not married. I am 36 and have very little experience with women.
Because I try to do the right thing and wait for the right one.
The problem is that I am going crazy with lust, and actually got deeply depressed out of loneliness.
My question is: should I follow the lesser evil and find a girl to have sex with and feel another person's skin.
To soothe the pain or should I keep waiting for the one?
It's taking forever!

Remember, sex outside the covenant of marriage is sin. There is no way getting around this. This will not severe your relationship with God, but will cause you grief, as you would be sinning against Him. Nothing can separate the saved from God, per Romans 8:38-39. But we can’t use that as an excuse to sin, either. We can’t sin all day and then plead grace. We can’t use it as a license to sin(not saying you’re doing this, btw). So, just stay in His word and pray to Him. But going the route of the “lesser evil” is not an option.