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It's not something I am proud about and is a down right habit I wished I never picked up. I need help to conquer my ejaculation problem. I started at 5 and never have been able to stop it. Sorry but I don't want to speak up in my church or family for help.
 
If anyone has prayed then thank you because I am feeling a less and less urge to do it.
 
Romans 7 4 Therefore, my brethren, you also have become dead to the law through the body of Christ, that you may be married to another—to Him who was raised from the dead, that we should bear fruit to God. 5 For when we were in the flesh, THE SINFUL PASSIONS WHICH WERE AROUSED BY THE LAW were at work in our members to bear fruit to death. 6 But now we have been delivered from the law, having died to what we were held by, so that we should serve in the newness of the Spirit and not in the oldness of the letter.

7 What shall we say then? Is the law sin? Certainly not! On the contrary, I would not have known sin except through the law. For I would not have known covetousness unless the law had said, “You shall not covet.†8 But sin, taking opportunity by the commandment, produced in me all manner of evil desire. For apart from the law sin was dead. 9 I was alive once without the law, but when the commandment came, sin revived and I died. 10 And the commandment, which was to bring life, I found to bring death. 11 For sin, taking occasion by the commandment, deceived me, and by it killed me. 12 Therefore the law is holy, and the commandment holy and just and good.

13 Has then what is good become death to me? Certainly not! But sin, that it might appear sin, was producing death in me through what is good, so that sin through the commandment might become exceedingly sinful. 14 For we know that the law is spiritual, but I am carnal, sold under sin. 15 For what I am doing, I do not understand. For what I will to do, that I do not practice; but what I hate, that I do. 16 If, then, I do what I will not to do, I agree with the law that it is good. 17 But now, it is no longer I who do it, but sin that dwells in me. 18 For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh) nothing good dwells; for to will is present with me, but how to perform what is good I do not find. 19 For the good that I will to do, I do not do; but the evil I will not to do, that I practice. 20 Now if I do what I will not to do, it is no longer I who do it, but sin that dwells in me.

21 I find then a law, that evil is present with me, the one who wills to do good. 22 For I delight in the law of God according to the inward man. 23 But I see another law in my members, warring against the law of my mind, and bringing me into captivity to the law of sin which is in my members. 24 O wretched man that I am! (NKJV)

Even Paul struggled with sin, we tend to think of him as “Saint Paul,†but he was a sinner saved by grace just like you and me. He goes through his list of sins in frustration with himself. Then just as it seems he will be lost to hopelessness of ever recovering he ask in the last part of verse 24, Who will deliver me from this body of death? Ah… then he remembers, 25I thank God—through Jesus Christ our Lord! So then, with the mind I myself serve the law of God, but with the flesh the law of sin.



Run to Jesus, but make sure that it is really a sin, and not just Satan condemning you. Read all of Romans, it's awesome!
 
So are you trying to say I am not doing anything wrong? Or are you saying it's something I just haft to live with?
 
I am not saying anything, the Bible said it. We are no longer in bondage to a rule based religion. It is a relationship.

1 Corinthians 10:23 All things are lawful for me, but not all things are helpful; all things are lawful for me, but not all things edify.

I think the harder you try to resist something, the more desirable it becomes. The desire for forbidden fruit is our real problem. I read a story recently, in my little devotional, “Our Daily Bread.” The title was forbidden fruit. It was about a resort hotel in Texas, they had a sign in each room saying “No fishing off the balcony.” Yet every day hotel guests would throw their lines into the water. When the management decided to just give up and remove the signs, the fishing stopped. We are a defiant people and need to have a heart transformation. If we are ever going to be successful at conquering our sin, the only way is through the power of the most High God.

First... Make sure you are not fantasizing about things you shouldn't. and Second make sure it is a sin, by asking Jesus if it is. You may have to search out the answer, and it may take some time, but He will answer you.

 
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