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As I said before, I love to ask questions, and the harder the question the better, so here goes...
I was approached this week by someone who is depressed. Honestly I think she has some right to be depressed as far as the situation she finds herself in goes...even she has been told to "just get over it" but as I thought on her situation and prayed for her it seemed to me that God did not create man to be in pain, to suffer pain...look at Gen. and compare Gen. to heaven...That means ultimately that the pain we feel is not some little thing. Which seems to me to be why we are so easily consumed by that pain. Why pain becomes our prominant thought so many times.
Now I am not suggesting here that pain can separate us from God.
Romans 8:38-39 (New International Version)
38For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons,[a] neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, 39neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
But rather I am suggesting that when someone is in pain, we do not act as many in the church act, maybe we need to stop telling people to stop feeling, get over the pain, etc. maybe we need to understand that the pain is beyond what we were created to endure and thus we should stop trying to convince people to not feel (as many in the church do) forgive (our forgiveness is not marked by lack of pain) or the like and instead come up along side them, comfort them, cry with them, share their pain, listen to them wail, and wait with them for the touch of the Master's hand. A hand that brings healing and comfort and strength beyond our abilities, a supernatural touch that allows us to endure the pain all the way to the end, to the promise that waits for us.
Any thoughts? Have you ever told someone who was suffering to "get over it?" do you ever get tired of hearing someone talk about their pain?
I was approached this week by someone who is depressed. Honestly I think she has some right to be depressed as far as the situation she finds herself in goes...even she has been told to "just get over it" but as I thought on her situation and prayed for her it seemed to me that God did not create man to be in pain, to suffer pain...look at Gen. and compare Gen. to heaven...That means ultimately that the pain we feel is not some little thing. Which seems to me to be why we are so easily consumed by that pain. Why pain becomes our prominant thought so many times.
Now I am not suggesting here that pain can separate us from God.
Romans 8:38-39 (New International Version)
38For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons,[a] neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, 39neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
But rather I am suggesting that when someone is in pain, we do not act as many in the church act, maybe we need to stop telling people to stop feeling, get over the pain, etc. maybe we need to understand that the pain is beyond what we were created to endure and thus we should stop trying to convince people to not feel (as many in the church do) forgive (our forgiveness is not marked by lack of pain) or the like and instead come up along side them, comfort them, cry with them, share their pain, listen to them wail, and wait with them for the touch of the Master's hand. A hand that brings healing and comfort and strength beyond our abilities, a supernatural touch that allows us to endure the pain all the way to the end, to the promise that waits for us.
Any thoughts? Have you ever told someone who was suffering to "get over it?" do you ever get tired of hearing someone talk about their pain?