Soma,
It is horrible when ones that you love go through pain and suffering. Sometimes, I wonder if we suffer more in certain cases.
Life's not about being fair Soma. It never was and never will be. The way I understand it, is life is an experience and when I look at all the suffering around me and close to me and inside of me... I begin to understand how God loves both you, me, Quath, Norm, James, D64 and everyone else.
There is good, there is bad like there is sin, suffering and deliverance. But anyway I have looked at it (and I've looked at it with several different glasses), there is only one God and as skewed as we may perceive him at times, he is always there and he does not change... Only our understanding of him as He reveals himself just at the right time... never late, never early...
Soma, May God's will be done in your life and your girlfriends as I know you will pray for her; and when you do, pray to God with all your heart and all your soul. When you are finished, it will be my prayer that you will begin to see how this love, is the same love that you should have for your neighbor, for this is the beginning of the love that the Lord has in store for you to experience.
In passing, Matt 5 states that blessed be the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Soma, in your prayers, may you find a glint of heaven.
May God continue to richly bless you.
Jeff