Edward
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- Sep 18, 2012
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Bad news on the extended family front. My ex-wife's family has had yet another death in it. One of her younger brothers, Tomek (one of the twins) has passed away.
I feel so bad for them about this! Their family has had way too much of this sort of thing. First it was her younger sister who got killed in an auto accident by a drunk driver. Then, too soon afterwards, her dad got a brain tumor and didn't last long. Now one of the younger brothers. I know that my ex-wife and her mother must just be totally crumbling over this. They did over the other two and Tomek was way too young for anything like this to happen to him. From what I understand, he had been in the hos[pital for a couple weeks or more over this and then suddenly just up and died. I know that it was drug related. Not an overdose, he was in the hospital, but complications and problems from most of a lifetime of drinking and drug abuse. I suppose that his body could just not continue to take it and shut down or something.
I've been praying for them all on and off and the last I heard of him, he was shaking off the drug use and had a girlfriend and a steady good job and stuff and was getting it together like he should have been. Last time I spoke to him he said he had been clean for awhile....so I suspect that he probably had been drinking more than usual to...make up for the no other drug use so drinking more...??? I think. I'm guessing. But please pray with me that their hearts be strengthened at this bad time for them. Especially for my ex-wife and her mom. They do not take these things well and worse than some others I have seen before who have lost family. So I'm just feeling terrible for then because I know how they are taking it.
It was scary and bad for me to hear of this, but somehow....there is peace in my spirit about him passing, like his soul is safe (I had been praying for him and the others), so the hardest thing about it to hit me, is how I know it is affecting his sister and his mom. I messaged them all on Facebook and gave my condolences and so forth, but I doubt that my words gave them any comfort at all. So join with me, that the Lord comfort the hearts of the mother and sister...and his brothers. It kind of seems unfair that they get hit with this.
I thank you all in advance.
I feel so bad for them about this! Their family has had way too much of this sort of thing. First it was her younger sister who got killed in an auto accident by a drunk driver. Then, too soon afterwards, her dad got a brain tumor and didn't last long. Now one of the younger brothers. I know that my ex-wife and her mother must just be totally crumbling over this. They did over the other two and Tomek was way too young for anything like this to happen to him. From what I understand, he had been in the hos[pital for a couple weeks or more over this and then suddenly just up and died. I know that it was drug related. Not an overdose, he was in the hospital, but complications and problems from most of a lifetime of drinking and drug abuse. I suppose that his body could just not continue to take it and shut down or something.
I've been praying for them all on and off and the last I heard of him, he was shaking off the drug use and had a girlfriend and a steady good job and stuff and was getting it together like he should have been. Last time I spoke to him he said he had been clean for awhile....so I suspect that he probably had been drinking more than usual to...make up for the no other drug use so drinking more...??? I think. I'm guessing. But please pray with me that their hearts be strengthened at this bad time for them. Especially for my ex-wife and her mom. They do not take these things well and worse than some others I have seen before who have lost family. So I'm just feeling terrible for then because I know how they are taking it.
It was scary and bad for me to hear of this, but somehow....there is peace in my spirit about him passing, like his soul is safe (I had been praying for him and the others), so the hardest thing about it to hit me, is how I know it is affecting his sister and his mom. I messaged them all on Facebook and gave my condolences and so forth, but I doubt that my words gave them any comfort at all. So join with me, that the Lord comfort the hearts of the mother and sister...and his brothers. It kind of seems unfair that they get hit with this.
I thank you all in advance.
