Hi bfiddy,
Welcome. While I agree that Predestination and Election are Biblical doctrines, which I believe. I don't believe the interpretation you've given them in this thread. I don't believe that interpretation can be supported with Scripture properly exegeted.
In Romans 8:28 the Bible says, “And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose. For whom He foreknew, He also predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son, that He might be the firstborn among many brethren.
He predestined, these He also called; whom He called, these He also justified; and whom He justified, these He also glorified.” What type of people does God say all things work together for good? “Those who love God and those who are called according to His purpose.” Well, what does it mean to be called? Well, here's how we're called.
We are called through the gospel. The gospel invitation is calling all of us, but we have to answer the calling. 2 Thessalonians 2:14, the Bible says, “To which He called you by our gospel for the obtaining of the glory of our Lord Jesus Christ.”
He called you through the gospel so that you could obtain salvation and be in Christ and be part of the predestined, be part of the elect that God chose before time. That all of those who are in Christ would be saved. And the only way that you can be in Christ is by obeying the gospel.
The Bible teaches in Romans 6:3-4 that we are baptized into to Christ. Galatians 3:27 also teaches that we are put into Christ when we are baptized for the forgiveness of our sins. And here's why we have to understand what do we have to do in order to be saved. How do I become a part of the elect? How exactly does that happen?
Well, it's not going to be some sort of mystical feeling or magical feeling that overcomes you. First of all, you have to do what 2 Thessalonians 2:14 says. You've got to listen to the call, and you're called through the gospel. The words of the God call anybody, invites anybody to be part of the elect, to be part of the chosen.
The Bible also teaches that you not only have to be called, but you've got to go to the right standard, Romans 10:17. This is where you're going to be called. You may have answered a calling before, but you have never answered the gospel call if you've not obeyed what the Bible says. Romans 10:17 says that “Faith comes by hearing, hearing by the word of God.”
Not your preacher. Don't listen to the false doctrine of Calvinism. Don't listen to people who say that you're either chosen to be saved or chosen to be lost, and there's nothing you can do about it. The Bible doesn't say that. The Bible teaches that anybody can obey the call.
So once you go to the right standard, then you must believe it: John 3:16, John 8:24. Jesus taught that we must believe that he is Jesus Christ, the Son of God. If we don't believe that, then we can't be saved.
But the Bible teaches there's more to being the elect than just believing in Jesus Christ. You must also repent of your past sins. Repentance means to change. In Acts 17:30 the Bible said that “there was a time that God once overlooked ignorance, but now he commands all men everywhere to repent.”
We have to repent. We have to change to do the will of God, Acts 3:18-19. If we want forgiveness of sins, we must repent of our past sins. The Bible teaches that we must confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, Romans 10:10.
But confessing Jesus and simply saying, “Lord, Lord” is not enough. Matthew 7:21, Jesus said that it's “not everyone who says to me ‘Lord, Lord’ shall enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of my God that is in heaven.” We have to do the will of God. We have to do the will of the Father. It's not enough just to say, “I believe that Jesus Christ is the Son of God.”
We must do what He says. That's why Jesus said in Luke 6:46 “why do you call me ‘Lord, Lord’ and do not do the things which I say?” It's one thing to call Jesus “Lord”. It's another to follow Him as your Lord. So then the Bible teaches, though, that you've got to be baptized. Mark 16:16, Jesus said, ‘he who believes and is baptized shall be saved.” Both belief and baptism comes before salvation. The Bible teaches in Acts 2:38 that you “repent and be baptized for the forgiveness of your sins”. That is in order to have your sins washed away. And that's why passages such as Romans 6:3-4 and Galatians 3:27 teach that when you do that, you are being put into the body. Only the Lord can add you to the body, Acts 2:47, Colossians 1:13. And the Lord will only do that when you obey Him.
So make sure that you are part of the elect. Anybody can be a part of that if you follow the Lord. But you have to obey the truth.