Nick
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I'm sorry mate.I grew up in a really rough neighborhood in a few of my schools as a kid at the age of 6 I was chased down the road by a big kid with a knife, I fought my way through the rest of school a nice sensitive kid had to become what I didn't want to be to survive. to this day because of what was done to me i carry it all as potential violence. even as a christian, underlying stuff done to me can come out in adult life. It tool a lot to try to reverse it all.
Now why would I want my 2 sensitive little girls exposed to that crap? undisciplined brats being allowed to get away with anything in public schools the teachers can't control them and don't care. where I live gangs of 13-14 yo children steal money from international chinese university students at knife point. I went down to the shopping mall nearby the school to find a young mother with a baby who had 2 children from the school with her she was smoking with the baby and to the 5 yo children "Dont you walk across that road you f**** lilttle f****wit." she intelligently instructed the child she was minding.Who does that to a young child?
The problem is naughty children in classes require more of the teachers time so what happens is more time is spent by teachers attempting to get the students to do the work and be quiet rather than teach the lesson. The good behaved kids suffer because of the naughty ones and grades suffer which is what I am seeing now with my eldest. we pay for external tutoring to make up for a poor effort on the teachers part a year ago who didn't focus on math enough. In private schools discipline requires less time and more time is spent on the lesson . My best mate is a teacher in a christian school he told me about this. aparently the teachers take more interest in reducing bullying too.
I don't want my 2 sensitive little girls to live with the scars i do I don't think i can remember ever liking school at all.
I thought I could at least give them that, nice childhood years and memories.
If it's the neighbourhood you're in, then there's going to be 'dodgy stuff' going on in both public and private schools. I think your best bet would be, God willing, to move to a better area. I understand that depends on job security etc. I'll be praying for you.
One of my teachers a couple of years ago lives at Woy Woy at the Central Coast. You probably know it's not a good area at all. She sent her kids to school in Sydney every day because she wanted them to get a good education in a Sydney public school.