Sorry to hear about the soccer Wrg.
My son-in-law was on a B or C team (not sure) and he also had to stop and it's very painful if you love the game to just have to stop.
(I'm also sorry for what you had to go through).
Wondering
I had pro level opportunity. Like today's premiership league over hear.
I did have an operation as well to repair a posterior ligament injury a year before my first anterior repair on the same leg.
I said in my post about that I didn't know what was more painful, the pain or loss of a professional career but actually there was something that was more painful.
I'm going to reveal this, I have forgiven but I mention it because, well not sure how to put it.
The day after my first operation the surgeon told me that I would not be able to peruse my career in soccer.
I was devastated, football was my life, given my childhood it was my escape. Being battered by my mum and step dad in my childhood that bought rejection but being accepted by people who were excited about my ability. Being on that pitch just released me. I had scouts come to watch me. I was approached to play for Scotland youth team (although over here the Scotland team is a butt of jokes)
Here is the worst part.
The day after the surgeon spoke to me someone from church came to visit me in hospital. As I explained my devastation they said something along the lines off "God caused this to happen because you put football before him because I trained on Sunday mornings and played games of football" that broke my heart, gave me a distrust in God. I did go to the service on Sunday evenings but that wasn't good enough. They left it at that and never had the decency to follow up with me.
I carried that up to 5 years ago, so I carried that for 22 years. God punished me because I didn't go to church on Sunday mornings and loved football over him. I would say I didn't love it more than him as such because I did pray I'd make it let it not change me. Soccer wasn't my God as such but yes it did give me a false sense of worth.
Oh dear it seems that I've revealed another secret.
I suppose I'm doing it because I want to make a point.
Before we speak pray for wisdom from God to speak his words. Shut the trap, control the tongue that can bring life and not death. Do not condemn with words but encourage with love. Yes at times we do put things before God.
But as my pastor said to me when this came up whilst doing Freedom in Christ "Do you honestly think that God would bust your leg to get his attention and in doing so heap guilt and condemnation on you?
Realised of course he wouldn't so I gave it up. And have been released from it. Took 22 years though. Let us make sure we don't do this to others. Yes God disciplines his erring children, but with love, compassion, correction and if he uses fellow believers to do it I'm sure he would use them to walk with us whilst correcting.
Seek the wisdom of God that directs the tongue that brings life and restores the person back to the loving Father.