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Self-Actualization

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Self-Actualization

Dr. Abraham Maslow coined the term “Self-Actualization†as the
pinnacle in the hierarchy of human needs. Dr. Maslow summed up the concept as:

"A musician must make music, an artist must paint, a poet must write,
if he is to be at peace with himself. What a man can be, he must be.
This is the need we may call self-actualization ... It refers to man's
desire for fulfillment, namely to the tendency for him to become
actually in what he is potentially: to become everything that one
is capable of becoming ..."

As potential models of a self-actualized person, Dr. Maslow identified
the following historical figures: Abraham Lincoln (in his last years),
Thomas Jefferson, Benjamin Franklin, George Washington, Albert
Einstein, Aldous Huxley, William James, Spinoza, Goethe, Pablo
Casals, Pierre Renoir, Robert Browning, Walt Whitman, Henry
Wadsworth Longfellow, Eleanor Roosevelt, Jan Addams, Albert
Schweitzer, Ralph Waldo Emerson and Joseph Haydn among others.
(It is interesting to note that several of these "models" were also
identified by Dr. R. M. Bucke, in his book: "Cosmic Consciousness,"
as individuals that exhibited the behavior of people who had
experienced cosmic consciousness.)

Characteristics of Self Actualizing People
Realistic
Realistically oriented, a Self-Actualizing (SA) person has a more efficient perception of reality, and has comfortable relations with it. This is extended to all areas of life.

A Self-Actualizing person is unthreatened and unfrightened by the unknown. He has a superior ability to reason, to see the truth, and is logical and efficient.

Self Acceptance

Accepts himself, others and the natural world the way they are. Sees human nature as is, has a lack of crippling guilt or shame, enjoys himself without regret or apology, and has no unnecessary inhibitions.

Spontaneity, Simplicity, Naturalness

Spontaneous in his inner life. Thoughts and impulses are unhampered by
convention. His ethics are autonomous, and Self-actualizing individuals are
motivated to continual growth.

Focus of Problem Centering

A Self-actualizing person focuses on problems and people outside of himself. He has a mission in life requiring much energy, as it is his sole reason for existence. He is serene, characterized by a lack of worry, and is devoted to duty.

Detachment: The Need for Privacy

The Self-actualized person can be alone and not be lonely, is unflappable, and retains dignity amid confusion and personal misfortunes, all the while
remaining objective. He is a self starter, is responsible for himself, and owns his behavior.

Autonomy: Independent of Culture and Environment

The SA person has a fresh rather than stereotyped appreciation of people and the basic good in life. Moment to moment living for him is thrilling, trans-cending, and spiritual as he lives the present moment to the fullest.

Peak experiences

"Feelings of limitless horizons opening up to the vision, the feeling of being
simultaneously more powerful and also more helpless than one ever was before, the feeling of ecstasy and wonder and awe, the loss of placement in time and space with, finally, the conviction that something extremely important and val-uable had happened, so that the subject was to some extent transformed and strengthened even in his daily life by such experiences."


Abraham Maslow

Interpersonal relations

Identification, sympathy, affection for mankind, kinship with the good, bad,
and ugly are all traits of the SA person. Truth is clear to him as he can see
things others cannot. He has profound, intimate relationships with few and is capable of greater love than others consider possible as he shares his bene-volence, affection, and friendliness with everyone.

Democratic values and attitudes

The SA person is able to learn from anyone, is humble and friendly with anyone regardless of class, education, political belief, race or color.

Discrimination: means and ends, Good and Evil

The SA does not confuse between means and ends and does no wrong. He enjoys the here and now, getting to goal--not just the result. He makes the most tedious task an enjoyable game and has his own inner moral standards (appearing amoral to others).

Philosophical, unhostile sense of humor

Jokes to the SA person are teaching metaphors, intrinsic to the situation and are spontaneous. He can laugh at himself, but he never makes jokes that hurt others.

Creativity

The SA person enjoys an inborn uniqueness that carries over into everything he does, is original, inventive, uninhibited, and he sees the real and true more easily.

Resistance to enculturation: Transcendence of any particular culture
SA people have an inner detachment from culture. Although folkways may be observed, SA people are not controlled by them. Working for long term culture improvement, indignation with injustice, inner autonomy, outer acceptance, and the ability to transcend the environment rather than just cope are intrinsic to SA people.

Imperfections

SA people are painfully aware of their own imperfections and joyfully aware of their own growth process. They are impatient with themselves when stuck and feel real life pain as a result.

Values

The SA person is realistically human due to a philosophical acceptance of self, human nature, social life, physical reality, and nature.


Resolution of dichotomies

Polar opposites merge into a third, higher phenomenon as though the two have united; therefore, opposite forces are no longer felt as conflict. To the SA person work becomes play and desires are in excellent accord with reason. The SA person retains his childlike qualities yet is very wise.


Maslow says there are two processes necessary for
self-actualization: self exploration and action. The
deeper the self exploration, the closer one comes
to self-actualization.

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You know at on time I would have found that interesting but honestly after many weeks of Biblical Counseling I am starting to believe Psychology is a bunch of crap. The biggest problem I have with Psychology is the fact that it is all about behavioral change while the Bible talks about the need for heart change. And since I put God’s wisdom above human wisdom I’m going to go with the Bible.

In any event thanks for the information.
 
You know at on time I would have found that interesting but honestly after many weeks of Biblical Counseling I am starting to believe Psychology is a bunch of crap. The biggest problem I have with Psychology is the fact that it is all about behavioral change while the Bible talks about the need for heart change. And since I put God’s wisdom above human wisdom I’m going to go with the Bible.

In any event thanks for the information.

Jesus was Self - Actualized! :wink:

Heart Changes = Behaviour Changes and vice versa....
 
Soma-Sight said:
Heart Changes = Behaviour Changes and vice versa....
Incorrect, in order for long lasting behavioral change to occur one must have their heart, which is ravaged by sin, progressively sanctified by God.
 
Self-Actualization sounds like a description of a good Christian. Thank you it is inspiroring to read. Yes, it is difficult to follow Jesus and be Self-Actualized, but a good Christian will do what it takes to be good.
 
Incorrect, in order for long lasting behavioral change to occur one must have their heart, which is ravaged by sin, progressively sanctified by God.

What do you think Self actualization means?

It means recognizing God's presence in the heart of all life.

I am the Self, dwelling in the heart of all beings, and the beginning, the middle, and the end of all that lives as well.
 
Soma-Sight said:
What do you think Self actualization means?

It means recognizing God's presence in the heart of all life.

I am the Self, dwelling in the heart of all beings, and the beginning, the middle, and the end of all that lives as well.
Note that I disagreed with this:

Soma-Sight said:
Heart Changes = Behaviour Changes and vice versa....

Not this:

Soma-Sight said:
Jesus was Self - Actualized! :wink:

I don’t believe you can “vice versa†“Heart change = Behavior change.†Heart change = Behavior change period, no reverse about it.
 
Soma-Sight said:
Jesus was Self - Actualized! :wink:

Interesting concept... How does this fit into this scripture? :-?

Hebrews 1:1-4 In many parts, and many ways, God of old having spoken to the fathers in the prophets, in these last days did speak to us in a Son, whom He appointed heir of all things, through whom also He did make the ages; who being the brightness of the glory, and the impress of His subsistence, bearing up also the all things by the saying of his might--through himself having made a cleansing of our sins, sat down at the right hand of the greatness in the highest, having become so much better than the messengers, as he did inherit a more excellent name than they.

In other words, how can the Glory of God himself be self actualized? Perhaps I'm a bit slow, but I get a tad dizzy when I try to comprehend your statment.
 
Maybe we sould look at what the Bible teaches us about Self-Actualization.

Shall we play a game? :-D

Take the word self, spell it backwards and add an "h" at the end. 8-)
 
And if we take self, spell it backwards, add an "L", and swap the "E" for an "O", we get "floss". Clearly, self-actualization is an evil ADA conspiracy.
 
Why is any philosophy or behaviour which promotes CONFIDENCE and EMPOWERMENT in an individual deemed as "fleshy"?

Once again the primary motivators of Protestantism show through...

Fear.... Guilt.... Inadequacy....

The very things which Christ wants is to avoid!
 
ArtGuy said:
And if we take self, spell it backwards, add an "L", and swap the "E" for an "O", we get "floss". Clearly, self-actualization is an evil ADA conspiracy.
You lost me. What does floss have to do with flesh? :-?
 
Soma-Sight said:
Why is any philosophy or behaviour which promotes CONFIDENCE and EMPOWERMENT in an individual deemed as "fleshy"?

Once again the primary motivators of Protestantism show through...

Fear.... Guilt.... Inadequacy....

The very things which Christ wants is to avoid!
For starters, God is not in the equasion, plus, I took a look at some of the names on the list... :o

What does any of this have to do with Protestantism?

Soma Sight doth protest too much, methinks.
 
Soma-Sight said:
Why is any philosophy or behaviour which promotes CONFIDENCE and EMPOWERMENT in an individual deemed as "fleshy"?

Once again the primary motivators of Protestantism show through...

Fear.... Guilt.... Inadequacy....

The very things which Christ wants is to avoid!
What?

At any rate, one should find confidence and empowerment in the Lord Jesus Christ not some philosophy or psychology (by the way it should be called psychologies because there is not one unified theory). I will admit that I still believe there are some truths in psychology but in comparison to what the Bible can teach us it is far inferior.

I believe one has no need of psychology or any form of human-centered counsel because Jesus Christ is adequate enough to enable us to deal with various problems by overcoming various sins. Jesus Christ, for those who believe, has provided saving grace and enabling grace. These truths we should take comfort in. Also, might I point out if the body of Christ (meaning everyone in the church) did provided some form of counsel to those who are dealing with various problems then many Christians would not need to seek a psychologist (who really will not help them in the long run because they do not deal with heart change but merely behavior change).

Now if any one questions whether a Christian (layperson or pastor) is to counsel another then simply consult the following verses:
Galatians 6:1; Romans 15:14; Colossians 3:16
(Note the KJV and NASB both use the word admonish which according Strong’s Concordance also means exhortâ€â€which can also mean to give advice which can also mean counsel)

Also it might be good for those interested to read Jay E. Adams Ready to Restore: The Layman’s Guide to Christian Counseling as it mentions the verses give above and goes into detail the duty of Christians to counsel others. Of course I was informed by a fellow poster that his book Competent to Counsel is a good book as well to read in.
 
Let us be honest. We all know he rumors and gossip that is passed in Church so how can we deny and be so high and mighty. Let us be real and get inspiration and help from many sources and quit passing around fear. Most Christians are afraid to speak clearly because they know they will be stoned to death or burned with all the books they read.
 
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