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● Ecc 5:17 . . Besides, all his days he eats in darkness, with much vexation and
grief and anger.
Wealthy people don't usually eat in the dark. Many have very nice chandeliers over
the table. But in their hearts often lurk evil thoughts, bad memories, regrets,
grievances, resentments, disputes, hard feelings, and a bad conscience. They're
really no different than the common man in that arena. Like they say: So and so
puts his pants on one leg at a time just like everyone else.
● Ecc 5:18 . . Only this, I have found, is a real good; to wit: that one should eat
and drink and get pleasure with all the gains he makes under the sun, during the
numbered days of life that God has given him; for that is his portion.
Solomon mentions death so often that you might think he was obsessed with it. But
really, he wasn't. His philosophy of life was such that he took death into
consideration so that his days weren't spent as if they were infinite and he expected
to live forever. A balanced philosophy of life has to include the very real possibility
of imminent death to keep things in proper perspective.
For example: actor Treat Williams was killed June 12, 2023 when his motorcycle
collided with a car, approaching in the opposite lane, made an unexpected left turn
practically right over him. Ten seconds earlier and the car would've missed him,
and ten seconds later it would've missed him too. But no, Treat and the car met at
just the right moment to end his life: he never saw it coming.
Man is but perishable fruit like peaches, pears, strawberries, cantaloupe, avocado,
and oranges; no amount of refrigeration will keep him fresh. Regardless of the
amount of rest, fresh air, good diet, and exercise; man begins to wither right
around the age of 32 or 34.
Youngster's can't really appreciate their expiration date as three brief decades: to
them, 32 or 34 years seems long and way out in the distance. As a result, the
withering process often sneaks up and takes them by surprise like starting a frog
off in cool water and slowly bringing it up to a boil. Of a sudden, one day it swats
them in the face like a rolled up newspaper that they're "old school" and replaced
by a younger, hip generation wherein they've been accustomed to thinking all along
was themselves.
The aging process, once it starts, is relentless. Its personality is sort of like that of
the robot in Arnold Schwarzenegger's movie "The Terminator" which is a machine
that can't be bargained with, it can't be reasoned with, it doesn't feel pity or
remorse or fear, and it absolutely will not stop-- ever! -- until you are dead.
The aging process is a cold as steel wake-up call that your tenure on this planet is
rapidly winding down to a close; and one day, it will be like you were never here.
● Ecc 5:19-20 . . Also, whenever a man is given riches and property by God, and is
also permitted by Him to enjoy them and to take his portion and get pleasure for
his gains-- that is a gift of God. For [such a man] will not brood much over the days
of his life, because God keeps him busy enjoying himself.
Within the context of the book of Ecclesiastes, a "gift of God" should never be taken
literally. It's just a figure of speech, like the common term "act of God" that labels
the cause of natural calamities like earthquakes, floods, storms, miscarriages, and
stuff like that.
I'm in my retirement years, and one of the things I avoid is keeping too busy
because I don't want the final years of my life to pass quickly. They'll pass soon
enough; but when you keep busy, time really has a way of flying.
On the flip side is one's mental health. Keeping busy does have a way of preventing
people from doing too much introspection and reminiscence thereby developing a
chronic case of the blues. One's mind can atrophy too if they never do anything to
exercise their intelligence. So I try to strike a balance: I keep somewhat physically
busy, and I keep somewhat mentally busy too; while avoiding excess in either area.
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