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Sunday school teacher dumped for being female

destiny said:
jgredline said:
Lovely
I have debated this thing between womens roles in church with a friend of mine for years. I can argue this in both ways. My own personal beliefs are that women should not be pastors / teachers of men as it is written in 1st Tim. As far as your position on this board goes, may I make a suggestion.. A suggestion that I believe will work well as we basically do this in my church and infact most conservative churches do this.
Let the women be mods to the women and let the men be mods to the men.
Its simple and will work and will not violate Gods word. I would also make it part of the TOS to say if your male or female and if people lie, its between them and God. I for one think you do a great Job and it would be a shame if you gave up your position. Even if you take up being a Mod to women only on your own, you will be doing what is right in Gods eyes.
Anyway, your very much appreciated.
Thanks Javier
:o
What do you think that Judy should do jgredline?

I take it Judy is an admin.
If so then the same as lovely. I am guessing you don't agree with me and thats fine. Its not a salvation issue and we can agree to disagree. Destiny. I don't want to open up a bag of worms but the scripture is clear here.

1 tim 2:11-14
11 Let a woman learn in silence with all submission. 12 And I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence. 13 For Adam was formed first, then Eve. 14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived, fell into transgression.
The New King James Version. 1982 (1 Ti 2:11-14)

2:11 As far as her part in public meetings of the church, a woman is to learn in silence with all submission. This is consistent with the rest of Scripture on this subject (1 Cor. 11:3–15;1Co 14:34, 1Co 14:35).
2:12 When Paul says: I do not permit a woman to teach, he is speaking as inspired of God. This does not represent Paul’s own personal prejudice, as some say. It is God who decrees that women should not have a public teaching ministry in the church. The only exceptions to this are that they are permitted to teach children (2 Tim. 3:15) and young women (Tit. 2:4). Neither is a woman to have authority over a man. That means that she must not have dominion over a man, but is to be in silence or quietness. Perhaps we should add that the latter part of this verse is by no means limited to the local assembly. It is a fundamental principle in God’s dealings with mankind that man has been given the headship and that woman is in the place of subjection. This does not mean that she is inferior; that is certainly not true. But it does mean that it is contrary to God’s will that the woman should have authority or dominion over the man.
2:13 To prove his point, Paul first of all goes to the creation of Adam and Eve. Adam was formed first, then Eve. The very order of the creation was significant. By creating man first, God intended him to be the head, the one who would exercise direction, the one who would have authority. The fact that woman was created second means that she should be in submission to her husband. By basing his argument on the order of creation, Paul rules out any thought that this is a matter of local culture.
2:14 The second proof refers to the entrance of sin into the human race. Instead of approaching Adam directly, the serpent went to Eve with his temptations and lies. According to God’s intention, Eve should not have acted independently. She should have gone to Adam and put the matter before him. Instead of that, she allowed herself to be deceived by Satan and fell into transgression.
In this connection, it is noteworthy that false teachers today usually visit homes when the wife is most apt to be there alone, that is, when the husband will most probably be away at work.
Adam was not deceived. It appears that he sinned with his eyes open. There are those who suggest that when he saw that his wife had already fallen into sin, he wanted to maintain his unity with her, and so he himself plunged into sin. But the Scriptures do not state this. They merely state that the woman was deceived, but that Adam was not.
Anyway Destiny. Like I said this is only my opinion and what I believe according to the way I interpret the scriptures. If my interpretation is wrong I am ready and willing to be corrected.
Thanks jg
 
2:14 The second proof refers to the entrance of sin into the human race. Instead of approaching Adam directly, the serpent went to Eve with his temptations and lies. According to God’s intention, Eve should not have acted independently. She should have gone to Adam and put the matter before him. Instead of that, she allowed herself to be deceived by Satan and fell into transgression.
Gen.3:6
And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree to be desired to make one wise, she took of the fruit thereof, and did eat, and gave also unto her husband with her; and he did eat.

That sounds to me like Adam was standing right there with her. :wink:

In this connection, it is noteworthy that false teachers today usually visit homes when the wife is most apt to be there alone, that is, when the husband will most probably be away at work.
It's also noteworthy to note that these false teachers were indeed 'male'.


Much of Paul's instructions lose their apparent contradictions and bias in the light of who Paul was writing to, when, and why. Likewise, the phrase "let he who is without sin cast the first stone" is taken out of context and universally applied where it should not be. When we read in context the whole new testament we get a better understanding of how the body as a whole is to function.

People today have an elitist view of authority; The church is suppose to be a family but istead it's becom a corporation. When we sit around with our family nobody is wearing a title, its a give and take situation.
Servant leaders make sure the body functions this way; lordship leaders make sure the elite are submitted to as the authority in place of the Holy Spirit.
We have a nicolaitan elitist mentality in most of todays modern churches.
(obviously)
 
Destiny
Please don't mis-understand what I am saying. Women are preciouse far more than men. Let me put it to you this way. Did you know that it was women who served and took care of Jesus while he was here with us. Not a single women ever did anything wrong to our Jesus. It was men who did everything to Jesus.
It was men who spit on him, pulled out his beard, cursed him, killed him, etc. It was women who supported him, who wept with him, it was a women who showed true worship to him, it was women whom he revealed himself to first in everything. Women are preciouse. There are things in life that women will have always been first. This issue of women teachers / pastors is but one issue.
I was simply stating what the scripture says. Can you imagine what went through the apostles minds when Jesus revealed himself to a women first after the resurection when it was only a few days prior they were wondering who would be the greatest in his kingdom..
Women have a very special place. Jesus did more for women than anyman in History.
jg
 
Hi javier,

I appreciate your insight into this situation, and your suggestion, so much, thank you. The Lord bless you. Of course, you know the women are not the ones who are in need of the moderating here. :wink: So, if I only moderate women, I may be out of job anyway...lol Just teasing. I do love having the prayer threads, though...I get to pray for everyone....of course, I could do that without moderating. I am going to pray some more, and think about how I can serve this board, and still be honoring God in the best way He leads...thanks.

I do not need to be convinced that Scripture teaches this, but the part about Eve being deceived in the passage is interesting.

1 Tim 2:14
14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.

Adam was not deceived, but Eve was. I am certain that the deceiver knew exactly what he was doing.

I teach my boys that part of their ministry to God is to protect women, and children, so that they are safe...why not keep them safe from deception which is even more serious? That is what Adam should have done in the very first place with Eve...he should have stomped a snake!

I do agree that Scripture is clear about women submitting to their husbands only, and not holding a place of authority over men in the church...and that could even extend to these forums as Destiny pointed out that this is also the church.

Destiny, I know that we do not have to agree on this matter, and I know you know the Word very well...I will not press you to agree with me, because we all must walk out our own salvation. And, you have never pressed me to agree with you, even though I am sure you have disagreed with me before. :o :-D I did want to say that it sounds as though you have been hurt in this area, you did not indicate that, but I get that feeling. The Lord bless you, and thanks for raising the question about the mods. I have been struggling for some time now, and insight from my brothers, and sisters, may be what I need.

lovely
 
I started researching this some myself after reading this thread, I've never really given the issue much thought honestly. Anyhow it doesn't take long to find the scripture on the issue so I decided to find some research on the web to see if I could find a good discussion from an open minded individual and I found one I hope everyone looks at.

http://www.cloudsofheaven.org/2006/03/w ... rship.html

I tend to agree with him in this article, what do you think?
 
I did want to say that it sounds as though you have been hurt in this area, you did not indicate that, but I get that feeling.
I haven't ever been hurt in this area Lovely, not at all. I have wittnessed many anointed woman of God who were being used as teachers, preachers, and evangelist etc., by God. I can't say they were in 'authority'over anyone, man or woman ....but I will say they were in submission to the Holy Spirit because the fruit of their labors was obvious.
But ....we can agree to disagree on this matter.
I still love you as my sister in Christ and think alot of you.
 
Lovely
Actually on my way home from work I started to think about this thread and prayed about it for a little while and thought some more and prayed some more and the Lord showed me I was wrong. In the context of this forum, where we have as many Christians as we do non Christians this forum is not a Church. While it is very much a part of the body of Christ and in certain parts of this forum we do fellowship with one another it is not church. We can't share in communion, sing worship songs, lay hands and pray for each other just to name a few. This forum and community is very preciouse place and very much appreciated and needed. But in the end Church is for the believer. Not for the non believer. Since we have many that are non believers here, Lovely and Judy you are very much needed here and in the context of this forum I have no problem being under you. Afterall we are not husband and wife. I would like to encourage you to keep doing what you do and don't let the evil one whisper in your ear that what your doing is wrong because its not..
Destiny, Lovely and Judy. I appologize if in any way I hurt your feelings and ask for forgiveness.
Blessings to you.
Javier
 
Destiny, Lovely and Judy. I appologize if in any way I hurt your feelings and ask for
We were posting at the same time, jgredline ....but as I stated above to Lovely, this isn't personal for me. Just posting my beliefs and opinions is all.
You haven't hurt my feelings at all.
 
Feminism could have grown because of Men usurping authority over Women and due to Excessive Male Domination, Neglecting of Women's Rights and Women's Equality.

It is better that both Men and Women learn not to usurp authority over each other according to the verse below -

1 Corinthians 7:3 - Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.

Although the verse is written for a married couple. It can also be understood in the spiritual sense as -

Let Men render unto the Women due benevolence: and likewise also Women unto the Men.

Paul appreciates the unfeigned Faith which first dwelt in Timothy's Grandmother and then Timothy's Mother and was positive that Timothy's could also have received such Faith through his Mother's and GrandMother's influence over the years according to the verse below -

2 Timothy 1:5 - When I call to remembrance the unfeigned faith that is in thee, which dwelt first in thy grandmother Lois, and thy mother Eunice; and I am persuaded that in thee also.

The following verse is good word of exhortation for all those excessively feministic women who indulge in usurping authority over men -

1 Timothy 1:11-15 - Let a woman learn in silence with all submissiveness. I permit no woman to teach or to have authority over men; she is to keep silent. For Adam was formed first, then Eve; and Adam was not deceived, but the woman was deceived and became a transgressor. Yet woman will be saved through bearing children, if she continues in faith and love and holiness, with modesty.

The above verse was written as a precaution and not as a commandment to be followed literally imo.

The following verses convey that both Men and Women can minister according to the Grace that they have received from an impartial God -

Ephesians 3:7 - Whereof I was made a minister, according to the gift of the grace of God given unto me by the effectual working of His power.

Ephesians 4:7 - But unto every one of us is given grace according to the measure of the gift of Christ.

James 1:17 - Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and cometh down from the Father of lights, with whom is no variableness, neither shadow of turning.

Romans 12:6 - Having then gifts differing according to the grace that is given to us, whether prophecy, let us prophesy according to the proportion of faith;...

Aquila and Priscilla were co-workers of Paul in the Ministry according to the 2 verses below -

Acts 18:26 - And he began to speak boldly in the synagogue: whom when Aquila and Priscilla had heard, they took him unto them, and expounded unto him the way of God more perfectly.

Romans 16:3 - Greet Priscilla and Aquila my helpers in Christ Jesus:

Another excellent word of exhortation for both Men and Women who Minister -

Romans 12:3 - For I say, through the grace given unto me, to every man that is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think; but to think soberly, according as God hath dealt to every man the measure of faith.

Let each Man minister according to the Measure of Grace and the Measure of Faith received by him from God without spiritual pride.

And, let each Woman minister according to the Measure of Grace and the Measure of Faith received by her from God without spiritual pride.
 
I am not against women preaching and teaching. I have seen the Holy Ghost use some women to really preach the Word, back in Paul's time it was more of a custom more than anything else, for the women to remain silent. God has no problem with women giving the Word, and He equips certain women to do so.
You all can say what you want about Paula White, but God uses her mouth and she preaches in the Spirit. And there are many others. God will use anybody that He wants, and I don't see nobody going up against Ruth or Deborah, and some of the other women that played major roles in Gods work.
 
jgredline said:
Lewis
Perhaps you should start a new thread on should women be pastors and see where it leads.
Yeah we had this argument before back in the winter I think was the last time. And because we have new members it is time for it again, so I will start one.
 
Lewis W said:
I am not against women preaching and teaching. I have seen the Holy Ghost use some women to really preach the Word, back in Paul's time it was more of a custom more than anything else, for the women to remain silent. God has no problem with women giving the Word, and He equips certain women to do so.
You all can say what you want about Paula White, but God uses her mouth and she preaches in the Spirit. And there are many others. God will use anybody that He wants, and I don't see nobody going up against Ruth or Deborah, and some of the other women that played major roles in Gods work.
Deborah was the first of the OT women to come to mind. She was a leader of an army and ruler (judge) over all of Israel.
 
What I'd like to know is: If it said in the bible that no woman could teach any man, then
WHY ON THE LORD'S GREAT EARTH WOULD IT TAKE THEM 54 YEARS TO FIGURE OUT THAT THEY HAD A WOMAN TEACHING AT THEIR SCHOOL, HM? I mean, I'm not the interfering type, I tend to leave people alone in the matter of how they live their lives or run their businesses. If they want to have an all-male staff at their school ten fine. But one wouldn't have this person teaching for 50 plus years and then suddenly remove her one day because "Oh! Spea! We forgot- women can't teach men!"[/b]
 
Whoa... Easy there!

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