Telling a girl u like her

[Kevin]

I was wondering how exactely do u tell a girl that u like her? i've always had that problem.

 

[Scott]

I'm more of the read and react type... if a girl is definitely interested I'll pursue, otherwise I'll back off if she doesn't seem all that interested.

Its a flawed system, but tell me one that isn't... : .

 

[Kevin]

But wot if u lke this girl then wot would u do?

 

[NRoof]

It's really simple. So simple we generally don't think about it.





Ready?





Just talk to her and tell her how you feel.

See I told you it was simple but I didn't say it would be easy.

Bottom line is honesty. You have to be willing to be rejected and hurt if the answer isn't what you want to hear. If you aren't willing to be hurt then simply remain friends. If you aren't friends already then start there before trying to advance the relationship to the next level.

 

[VonKarman]

It's really simple. So simple we generally don't think about it.





Ready?





Just talk to her and tell her how you feel.

See I told you it was simple but I didn't say it would be easy.

Bottom line is honesty. You have to be willing to be rejected and hurt if the answer isn't what you want to hear. If you aren't willing to be hurt then simply remain friends. If you aren't friends already then start there before trying to advance the relationship to the next level.

This is excellent advice.

 

[Kevin]

It's really simple. So simple we generally don't think about it.

Ready?


Just talk to her and tell her how you feel.

See I told you it was simple but I didn't say it would be easy.

Bottom line is honesty. You have to be willing to be rejected and hurt if the answer isn't what you want to hear. If you aren't willing to be hurt then simply remain friends. If you aren't friends already then start there before trying to advance the relationship to the next level.

Well yea i gues lol thanks.Is there an eiser way?

 

[Scott]

Just wink at her a lot and pick daisies for her.. :D .

 

[Kevin]

Just wink at her a lot and pick daisies for her.. :D .

Wink at her lol man i cant do that she might think i'm nuts lol

 

[Scott]

she might think i'm nuts lol

You might be surprised... it could also work in your favor. Ladies are definitely strange and unpredictable creatures.. : .

 

[KOTTMatt]

I have lots of girl problems. :smt119 Why I don't know.

 

[Sothenes]

I'll give you a perspective from a married man. If you aren't available, women don't normally want to be friends with a man so what does that tell you? In my perspective, some women say they want to be friends but they only have relationships in mind.

If you aren't being friendly and if you aren't chatting away with someone then I would move on to someone who will chat away with you and who will be friendly. This is the only kind of woman I would tell or ask. I mean that you can tell right away that if the person doesn't want to chat or have coffee with you then they aren't interested in you so you don't have to get rejected. It is about having friendship first and if friendliness doesn't happen then they aren't interested.

 

[GundamZero]

Yes! Thank you Sothenes! Nobody ever listens to me when I say that! I guess it's because I've never dated before.

Because how can you be lovers if you can't be friends?

 

[Sothenes]

Yes! Thank you Sothenes! Nobody ever listens to me when I say that! I guess it's because I've never dated before.

Because how can you be lovers if you can't be friends?

I think there is a mistake of asking someone out for the sake of going out with someone. The ideal situation is that you are doing something you like to do and the other person is doing the same thing and then you meet.

 

[GundamZero]

Yes! Hot Dog! :bday: Somebody gets it. But then again, you are married... Non of my friends my age understand that. They say they do it for genuine love, but it's really for a sense of completion, which can only be found in Christ. But Christians do it too. They think romantic admiration demands exclusiveness and intamacy. They should simply be patient and wait for God to show them someone they don't have to dress up for or be fake around.

 

[Kevin]

she might think i'm nuts lol

You might be surprised... it could also work in your favor. Ladies are definitely strange and unpredictable creatures.. : .

You know wot ur right i think i should try it....i hope i have the guts though heh

 

[Kevin]

Yes! Hot Dog! :bday: Somebody gets it. But then again, you are married... Non of my friends my age understand that. They say they do it for genuine love, but it's really for a sense of completion, which can only be found in Christ. But Christians do it too. They think romantic admiration demands exclusiveness and intamacy. They should simply be patient and wait for God to show them someone they don't have to dress up for or be fake around.

Yea...(sigh) i should keep that in mind.

 

[Sothenes]

she might think i'm nuts lol

You might be surprised... it could also work in your favor. Ladies are definitely strange and unpredictable creatures.. : .

You know wot ur right i think i should try it....i hope i have the guts though heh

If you make it about having fun together, you don't have to be shot down because you are not being direct but the idea can be there.

 

[Kevin]

If you make it about having fun together, you don't have to be shot down because you are not being direct but the idea can be there.

Yea i never thaught of that.Thats another thing i should keep in mind.Thanks :-D

 

[CoreyRazz]

Eh I wouldnt know. I'm too shy to actually persue anyone because I know I'll get turned down, plain and simple.