Joh 17:12 While I was with them, I kept them in thy name which thou hast given me: and I guarded them, and not one of them perished, but the son of perdition; that the scripture might be fulfilled.
Jesus called Judas the son of perdition, or the son of damnation. Judas is in hell. Certainly all apostles perished physically, but only Judas perished eternally.
As everyone knows, Judas betrayed the Christ, the son of God. The sovereignty of God is revealed in that this was a matter of prophecy. Christ knew that he would betray him.
Joh 13:21 When Jesus had thus said, he was troubled in the spirit, and testified, and said, Verily, verily, I say unto you, that one of you shall betray me.
God had sovereignly determined that Judas would betray the Son of God so that some of us who have sinned in Adam, and sinned by ourselves, should receive salvation, being in Christ by faith. God made all the conditions for Judas's betrayal possible, and then will punish Judas eternally for his sin. God receives the glory for his punishment of sin.
There is no glory for me in that punishment, because I am no different then Judas. We are made of a cut of the same cloth. We all have sinned and come short of the glory of God. We were all sinners and rebels, sold under the slavery of sin, and dead in sin. It is only by Gods grace that I believed. God arranged all the circumstances. He brought the message to me, he regenerated my soul, and I believed and was saved.
The fact of it is that there is no difference between any of us, and Judas. We are all of the same lump of clay. The only difference is what the potter makes of the clay, one lump to destruction (part of that lump was the son of perdition -- Judas) , and one to salvation.