One thing to keep in mind about the Holy Spirit is how individually He works within each of us. We each will have our own testimony as to how He works, because each of us have different needs and areas of sin.
For me, I had a classic "conversion" experience, one night in my bedroom whilst reading through the Gospel of John. Then, about 3 years later, I had another experience, call it a "baptism of the Holy Spirit" if you will, in which I went from struggling and floundering in my faith to being far more grounded and on-fire.
That was me. My husband on the other hand, has no specific "come to Jesus" moment, not was there ever an infusing of the Holy Spirit so overwhelming that he can pin point where he was when it took place. This doesn't mean though that Steve isn't born-again or indwell by the Spirit, he certainly is, but with him, it was much more the gradual change over time.
One thing I will state, even though I love all my Pentecostal and Charismatic brothers and sisters here, there is an error in the teaching that if one is "baptized by the Spirit" one WILL speak in tongues. I've come head to head with this before, and it really is error. I do believe that, while the gift of tongues as spoken of in Acts, had a specific purpose and probably isn't around much, there are still those who do speak in tongues for whatever reason that edifies them. And, if that if the gift they desired, very good! However, not all who are ind welled or baptized by the Spirit will speak in tongues. There are other gifts that the Spirit will manifest within the believers He baptizes and indwells.
your pretty right handy i couldn't agree more about what you said of speaking in tongues. The holy spirit enables us differently we don't need 2 billion clones on earth professing Christianity. We all each have a different spiritual journey, God has laid out a path for us all to follow. Because of this we are equipped different ways. The body of Christ has people with gifts that compliment each other to work together.
I think one thing most agree on is the holy spirit coming on you is a joyous occasion, usually accompanied with feelings of peace love and happiness.
Sometimes too things happen you cant control the spirit does to individuals. Those with faith that open themselves up to it can be used to do the miracles and stuff if it is gods will for their lives.
One thing I do know when the holy spirit comes on a believer a desire to share the gospel and serve others often manifests in them. Usually because its so awesome they want to share it with their friends.
Repent of your sin open your heart- ask Jesus for it- receive it, as many times as you want. Its the gift from God for being a follower of of Christ. the HS changes and empowers lives. but most of all believe it can and it will. For me it is an inner glow feeling.
Usually people filled with the holy spirit have this mark on them it comes out from them. It is how you can tell..
1 Corinthians 13
<sup class="versenum" id="en-NIV-28670">4</sup> Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. <sup class="versenum" id="en-NIV-28671">5</sup> It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. <sup class="versenum" id="en-NIV-28672">6</sup> Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. <sup class="versenum" id="en-NIV-28673">7</sup> It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
<sup class="versenum" id="en-NIV-28674">8</sup> Love never fails.
2 prayers
"Lord take revenge on that person that wronged me today, can I have a new car and next weeks lottery results. oh and let the holy spirit fill me, so I can be happy in my new wealth." You probably get nothing because you ask with wrong motives. God wont honor that. (That prayer means Lord please send me trials and tribulations so I can learn to pray with right motives)
"Lord help me to love others as you do, and help me to be more like you. Please give me a passion to reach out to the unsaved and love the unloved, fill me with your holy spirit to do it'.. Lord do whatever you want with me, I'll do it. You got it! you will get as much holy spirit as you want plus some.