Whoa. Two pages of...no discussion, lol. Anyway. If you read the scriptures with torturing the text in mind and with agenda to justify self defense, you can do it. I went through this awhile back, being a gun owner and thinking myself a good man with family to protect, i found my justification in scripture.
However, time passes, people grow in the Lord and wisdom increases, praise the Lord for that. I am able to read the same texts nowadays and in my older, somewhat more wiser and humbler state that I am at now, i can see where my pride had tortured the text in the past to get my justification. You can call it what you want to, but the Lord does not want us to kill period. I'm with Gary on this as i think he is correct.
Now does this mean that I will not protect my family? Does this mean that you could come in here and rape my wife with nothing to fear? Not hardly. I would act as the Spirit leads me to act. If He wants them dead, they die, if he wants to provide a solution without bloodshed, it will happen. In fact it did a couple years ago. I had an attempted home invasion. When I felt my spidey sense tingle when the big stranger asked to use my phone and i said no, it was on and he attacked me at my front door and tried to gain entry.
I was wearing my Colt 45 iwb as usual. Lucky for that man the Spirit of the Lord was with me that day and had mercy on him. The glass on the screen door was broke in the fight, we traded a few punches and did some grappling, then at a momentary break where he took a step back to shake of the last punch, I smoothly drew my 45 and pointed it at his face. I knew this would stop it at that point. Or thought so. He looks at me pointing the 45 at him for like two seconds, then I seen forward motion. He had to be on drugs. Who in their right mind steps towards a drawn 45? But he did. I was totally justified at that point to shoot him dead. Make my day law and all that. I had fight marks on me, the glass was broke and showed evidence of violence, it was clearly justified.
but I felt in my heart that I didn't want to shoot another human being. They say it changes you. Having had a veritable lifetime of training shooting, reading case laws, stories, much stuff and going shooting very very much, I instantly knew what to do (Spirit of god? Training?), that I had time to create distance, fire a warning shot down into the grass from the porch, while retreating into my home and still have enough time to actually come back on target and shoot him if necessary. i know that warning shots are frowned upon and that justification did exist. But I've read all the stories of justified shootings and their psychological aftermath. I really didn't want to go there. It was his choice though. Lord be with me. I figured if the sight of the weapon didn't turn him, then the sound of a shot may. (never shoot in the air, what goes up will come down). Justified or not you are responsible for every bullet that leaves your gun. So it went into the grass. I was right. The sound of the single shot from the big gun did persuade him to leave. Suddenly i was alone and he was gone. Praise the lord a way was made for me to handle the situation without bloodshed.
I can not believe how many people told me i should have shot him, even the police did. I wasn't arrested, they didn't take my gun or nothing. They told me i should of shot him. (Edited, ToS 2.3: No foul language, pornographic, sexually offensive, sexually explicit, or similarly related material or language including toilet humor. This includes words purposely misspelled or alternate use of characters to indicate such statements. Obadiah.) The Lord is bigger than that. I credit our Lord for being with me and handling it for me.
Yes, I'm well aware that the Lord commanded people to kill in scripture. If He commands me to do so, then i will not disobey. But it is up to the lord and not to me. I have been instructed to kill not. I don't want to cross that line by my choice.