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We Desperately Need Restoration

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“We Desperately Need Restoration”
Ephesians 4:31-32 NLT
Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior. Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.



As I was reading this passage this morning, I thought about how we are all so often guilty of negative behavior toward other people. It’s definitely evident in the world around us each day, especially during this time of election. I get so tired of commercials showing candidates bashing each other. But, it’s not only evident in the secular world around us, but sadly also very evident in the church today as well.

If we were to be absolutely honest, often this behavior happens more in the church than in the secular world. Ouch! In all my years of paid ministry and volunteer ministry, I have seen so much that has broken my heart as people treat each other in so many ways they never should. I have been very guilty of this myself in many ways through the years.

Paul is very adamant that we need to get rid of all this evil behavior that consumes us and, instead be consumed with kindness, love and compassion for each other. The world really needs to see the church be the example of Christ that it needs to be. If we are filled with bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words and slander, who in the world would want to be around us? If we are filled with this behavior, how is the love of Christ going to shine through us? Just the opposite!

My wife, kids and I really enjoy watching HGTV shows. We are often surprised and make loud comments when people walk into homes that look disgusting. We often wonder how in the world people could treat homes the way they do. Some home are left in awful condition and it’s often a turnoff to many realtors and home flippers. The one thing they want to do in these homes is get rid of everything that makes the home sale impossible. They want to get rid of everything disgusting and replace all of that with things that will bring in home buyers. The home flippers will go to whatever lengths they have to in order to make the home presentable and inviting.

Friends, we also need to work desperately hard to rid our lives of the disgusting things Paul mentions and fill our lives and attitudes instead with the love of Christ so that people feel invited more to know the love of God. We cannot afford to set a bad example of behavior for others when they need to see God’s love.

We need to daily resist the temptation to fly off the handle and instead allow God’s love to fill us and bring us to forgiving others and showing unconditional love that God showed to us.
 
Jesus was a hard critic, he called many people out and had a attitude didn't really care about other people's feelings, but he done it in truth and wass a hypocrite, and the same is ok for anyone as long as it's not done in hypocrisy and it's said in truth.

What is the truth?. Well most of us have freedom of belief, religion, and opinion, so it's whatever one wants to believe is the truth. Thats our rights.
 
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Oh, I was suppose to say Jesus was not a hypocrite in my above post but I must have done a typo as it says "wass".

Anyhow whatever. Just correcting a mistake.
 
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had a attitude didn't really care about other people's feelings

When one is wrong, then your feelings of hurt etc when that is pointed out do not matter.
Those Jesus called names were totally unrepentant.

Does a traffic cop worry that you were speeding because you were late for work?
The only feelings that matter are repentant sorrow and the joy of knowing one's saviour.

Feeling hurt because Jesus has pointed out one sin can help save one.

All this does not mean we are to act like westborough church.
 
Does a traffic cop worry that you were speeding because you were late for work?
The only feelings that matter are repentant sorrow and the joy of knowing one's saviour.

Of course they do. If I speed and go through a red light I would get a penalty as that would break the law in the name of road safety. When a cop speed and run a red light they get a free pass as they are just working and doing there job.
 
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“We Desperately Need Restoration”
Ephesians 4:31-32 NLT
Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior. Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.



As I was reading this passage this morning, I thought about how we are all so often guilty of negative behavior toward other people. It’s definitely evident in the world around us each day, especially during this time of election. I get so tired of commercials showing candidates bashing each other. But, it’s not only evident in the secular world around us, but sadly also very evident in the church today as well.

If we were to be absolutely honest, often this behavior happens more in the church than in the secular world. Ouch! In all my years of paid ministry and volunteer ministry, I have seen so much that has broken my heart as people treat each other in so many ways they never should. I have been very guilty of this myself in many ways through the years.

Paul is very adamant that we need to get rid of all this evil behavior that consumes us and, instead be consumed with kindness, love and compassion for each other. The world really needs to see the church be the example of Christ that it needs to be. If we are filled with bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words and slander, who in the world would want to be around us? If we are filled with this behavior, how is the love of Christ going to shine through us? Just the opposite!

My wife, kids and I really enjoy watching HGTV shows. We are often surprised and make loud comments when people walk into homes that look disgusting. We often wonder how in the world people could treat homes the way they do. Some home are left in awful condition and it’s often a turnoff to many realtors and home flippers. The one thing they want to do in these homes is get rid of everything that makes the home sale impossible. They want to get rid of everything disgusting and replace all of that with things that will bring in home buyers. The home flippers will go to whatever lengths they have to in order to make the home presentable and inviting.

Friends, we also need to work desperately hard to rid our lives of the disgusting things Paul mentions and fill our lives and attitudes instead with the love of Christ so that people feel invited more to know the love of God. We cannot afford to set a bad example of behavior for others when they need to see God’s love.

We need to daily resist the temptation to fly off the handle and instead allow God’s love to fill us and bring us to forgiving others and showing unconditional love that God showed to us.

Amen. Good word.
 
When one is wrong, then your feelings of hurt etc when that is pointed out do not matter.
Those Jesus called names were totally unrepentant.

Does a traffic cop worry that you were speeding because you were late for work?
The only feelings that matter are repentant sorrow and the joy of knowing one's saviour.

Feeling hurt because Jesus has pointed out one sin can help save one.

All this does not mean we are to act like westborough church.

I should clarify more and give some context what I mean by it's ok for people to critisise. What I mean is more like critisism for the better and in truth it can help others grow even if they get offended.

It's like if I baked a cake and an award winning professional cake chef gave critisism and said it's majorly dry and just doesn't have any flavour at all I did not enjoy it at all, obviously my feelings would be hurt and I would be a bit offended because I put time and effort into it and thought it was great, but they are giving the truth because they are a cake maker and they critisise because they want me to improve they are helping me to become a better cake maker. They know cakes and what is a good cake.

Otherwise for life I would be thinking my cake is good because everyone who eats it was too afraid to say anything but no one ever enjoyed my cake.
 
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Once someone told me Santa Clause is not real. They hurt my feelings and offended my belief system.
 
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