Hate to burst the bubble of traditional thinking, but I think you will find the bible tells us that He is changing us, glory to glory..... not, we, ourselves, as you posted.
It is Him changing us, however we still have our part to do.
It's Him that teaches us...
I'm not saying this is a list of things we must do to be saved.
He does the saving, however we must begin to co-operate with Him.
Your testimony of going to the soaking prayer services was awesome.
I know some that go may act "different", and there are some who need much discernment about who is doing what in those services.
12 Therefore, brethren, we are debtors--not to the flesh, to live according to the flesh. 13 For if you live according to the flesh you will die; but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live.
Romans 8:12-14
Ask the Lord, everyday to show you and
give you wisdom to live more and more by the Spirit, who dwells in your inner man.
Praying in tongues, if you have been Baptized in the Holy Spirit is a great way to keep yourself built up on your most holy faith.
But you, beloved, building yourselves up on your most holy faith, praying in the Holy Spirit, 21 keep yourselves in the love of God, looking for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ unto eternal life.
Spending time alone, separated unto the Lord in worship, and praying to Him for your loved ones and those whom He puts upon your heart.
Keeping your mind in the word to meditate on it day and night, will give you a great desire to do His will in the word.
But we all, with unveiled face, beholding as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory, just as by the Spirit of the Lord.
2 Corinthians 3:18
Learning by the Spirit to do the work of beholding...
Learning by the Spirit to do the work of
dwelling in the secret place or
walking in the Spirit...
is something that the anointing that abides in us teaches us to do as we...
ask, seek and knock.
But
the anointing which you have received from Him abides in you, and you do not need that anyone teach you;
but as the same anointing teaches you concerning all things, and is true, and is not a lie, and just as it has taught you, you will abide in Him.
1 John 2:27
JLB