Hi Javier
What have you learned in the 123 forum?
I learned that God can use even the internet to teach us.
I learned that to be sharpened well takes disagreements, rebuke, and self-denial. And, for it to work for the benefit of the church, I have to be willing to receive the truth, as well as speak it.
I have learned that just because I disagree with some on many things, does not mean I disagree with them on all things. And, just because I agree with some on many things, does not mean I agree with them on all things.
I have learned to not be afraid to agree, or disagree, based on who I am responding to.
I have learned that not all believers process information the way I do, and when I write I forget that at times.
I have learned that not everyone will like me, or love me, but that some will do both, and some will do one or the other.
I have learned that sometimes people are having bad days when they post, and to try to forgive before I reply.
I have learned for a shy person, I am very long winded at times.
I have learned that people sometimes ask questions to bait you.
I have learned to not put people in a box because they have a denomination, or because they say they don't.
I have learned that not everyone will view me, or treat me, as a person on the other side of the computer screen.
I have learned that false teachings are everywhere...and that I have bought into some myself...and to pray that I do not buy into any new ones, but that the Lord will rid me from any I may still hold.
I have learned to pray before I read, pray before I respond, pray for those I am responding to, and who are reading, and to pray before I press send.
I have learned that no one knows the entire Truth.
I have learned that we are divided on way too many things, and that I do not have the solution for that.
I have learned that there are too many ways to look at Revelations, and that the Holy Spirit is the only one I am going to trust to teach me there.
What have you come to appreciate about this forum?
I appreciate the prayer threads.
I appreciate the different parts of the church here.
I appreciate people's willingness to say what they think, even if it's not Scriptural. I also appreciate those willing to say what they think, and post Scripture to back it up.
I appreciate that I have people to visit with here, both believers, and non-believers alike.
I appreciate that some topics keep me digging in the Word for weeks, and also spark debates, and interest, in my own home.
I appreciate the TOS, because I am allowed to use God's Word as evidence, and to not be attacked in a heavy manner for just being a believer.
I appreciate the moderators, and the time they spend here reading, and keeping out the junk. I also appreciate the members who have no problem keeping the mods in line if they feel they need to confront them...keeps everyone accountable in my opinion.
What have you learned not to do in the forum?
I have learned never forget to love, pray, consult the Word, and think before I respond.
I have learned to never post what I can not back up with the Word.
I have learned not to assume I know what others mean...to read, and re-read...and then ask if I am still unclear.
I have learned not to assume the worst in others.
I have learned that not everyone shares my perspective, and that I can't always understand theirs when I try.
I have learned to not forget to copy before I hit the send button!
What has shocked or surprised you about the forum and really about the different beliefs?
When I first came here, from a non-christian site, it dawned on me that there are real christians posting on the net.
That not all atheists hate me, but that some really do in a serious way.
That some believers will side with the world against me in an argument, and some will in their hearts...they do not see me as a sister if I do not agree with them.
That some people will twist your words, even after you clarify.
That many people consider disagreement unloving.
That many people consider disagreement as judgemental.
That everyone thinks they are right, but they are quick to call you on it if you think you are right.
That standing alone can mean just that.
That many people think if you call something sin that you are judgemental, unloving, and self-righteous. That, I think that sometimes of others, when it's my sin being addressed.
Any thoughts?
I am happy that I am challenged with each visit to open my Bible and dig, and to think in ways, or about things, I wouldn't ordinarily. I have also been challenged to study history, traditions, and languages from time to time. I like it here, and I love everyone here, and I love being able to talk about God, and share what I have learned so far...and to learn and grow, and be changed as the Lord leads. The Lord bless you, and thanks for the questions.