lovely
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destiny said:I agree, lovely.. but the leadership was the problem in the church we came out of. It was either get with their program or leave. A lot of the members knew what the problem was but were too fearful to speak out against it. So fear played a big part in the wrong doing also. They were brainswashed into thinking they were being unloving and divisive if they complained or said anything negative. Another lie that was used to control was, "touch not the anointed"; the leaders would pull that scripture out of context and use it to instill fear in the members, meaning they held a special anointing that shouldn't be questioned.
Control is common practice in most charismatic churches. The ones that did speak up weren't heard since they didn't hold leadership positions; all that was left to do was leave.
Eventually, over the last few years, most of the members left there and the preacher took a job at another church as a marriage counselor. It just completely dried up to nothing, and it needed to.
Now they have another pastor there who is trying to revive it; I don't know anything about him but we sure won't be going back there.
That one church taught us so much! :shocked!
We were also part of a church that asked us to get with the program or leave. It was very painful. We wouldn't have left if they hadn't asked us too, because we were really praying that God would intervene...I guess He did. The church is no longer a light now due to immorality, and the pastor that caused all the division was there less than five years...some people who were asked to leave were there longer than I have been alive. Anyway, we had worshipped there with theological differences in peace for many years, but for some reason he was very focused on it...he never even came to discuss it with us privately. He is unqualified for the position he holds, and is very deceptive...he deceived some very fruitful believers. We didn't attend anywhere for a while...we were looking and praying, but mostly we were just resting. We were just weary from the whole ordeal. Unity takes work much like a marriage.
The Lord bless you.