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Why women talk a lot

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Both women (grownups) and little girls (children) talk a lot (compared to a man's).Talking is an inevitable part of a woman.
A study shows (link withheld), that the reason why they talk a lot is that every young girl will eventually become a mother and talk and scream at the stubborn children. The potential explored! So the instinct to talk is there. And it is in full swing when she become a mother. Both the children and the husband would get her to talk.
So the talking starts right from childhood throughout life
I read a stuff about this. cant find the youtube yet.
 
that the reason why they talk a lot is that every young girl will eventually become a mother and talk and scream at the stubborn children.
You may actually have a good point here. Little girls mimic their mothers much of the time. So it's not that we are born that way, but it is a learned trait.
 
I'M talkative

Me too. I get too detailed to the point that I think I lose people, and the same goes for writing, too. But I use as many words as I do to make sure I am understood and things are precisely stated the way any scientific mind would do.
 
I know this might sound really bad and low but i seriously left my last girlfriend because she would not stop talking and gave me a headache. I mean she was really nice but just would not shut up. It was so irritating i had to walk away. I had no other choice. Im a relaxed quiet sort of guy. I like my peace and quiet.
I think that is fine. If things wouldn't work, they wouldn't work.
 
Yes. I dont like jumping ahead without thinking. It was just not going to work. Thats why i get so frustrated when i see my friends jumping in and out of relationships then have a cry to me about it when things do not work out. Boo hoo. They should think with there brain first before hooking up or getting there girlfriends pregnant. They complain about everything yet put themselves in the situation. They need seek wisdom to master the power women have first. Adam screwed it up for men by listening to Eve. Men are weak and have fallen thats why they look at beauty and get trapped as a sucker.
Women have their weakness towards men as well, and get trapped because of them.
Remember Eve's punishment was that she would desire her husband, or to have a husband. So I think the desire thing is pretty well evened out.
Adam screwed it up for women, too. :chair The chair is for Adam not you.
 
I know this might sound really bad and low but i seriously left my last girlfriend because she would not stop talking and gave me a headache. I mean she was really nice but just would not shut up. It was so irritating i had to walk away. I had no other choice. Im a relaxed quiet sort of guy. I like my peace and quiet.
 
maybe if men would listen the first time we would not
 
So the bible should have given you understanding and the truth then. You must do what i say now as i am man so i ban you from this thread for a week starting now. he he. :)
youarenotmyhusband :)
 
Women have their weakness towards men as well, and get trapped because of them.
Remember Eve's punishment was that she would desire her husband, or to have a husband. So I think the desire thing is pretty well evened out.
Adam screwed it up for women, too. :chair The chair is for Adam not you.

The translation is bad there. Actually, man/woman in the garden had perfect fellowship, unity, and equality but because of sin man would rule over her and that's the means God decided for a hierarchy. This verse in effect is that she desires to have the control of her husband, but the fact is he would rule over her. Eve wanted to be the first in the women's movement.

Frankly, with a lot of what's out there in men, I don't see women desiring men as much as men desire women, beings women are the better looking of the sexes (unlike the animal world). The only exception are women who are insecure and define themselves in terms of a strong man. But that can happen (not as often, though) with a man wanting a mother image. So it works both ways.
 
This verse in effect is that she desires to have the control of her husband, but the fact is he would rule over her. Eve wanted to be the first in the women's movement.
I see in scripture a reoccurring theme, women desire to have children and a strong man is necessary to help her to care for those children.
Every barren women in the Bible, felt that they were not being blessed by God. Sarah was so desperate to have a family that she was willing for another woman to provide her with a son. Of coarse she was wrong. But Sarah did not do that in order to control Abraham.
Gen 16:2 and Sarai saith unto Abram, `Lo, I pray thee, Yehovah hath restrained me from bearing, go in, I pray thee, unto my handmaid; perhaps I am built up from her;' and Abram hearkeneth to the voice of Sarai.
I don't see women desiring men as much as men desire women, beings women are the better looking of the sexes (unlike the animal world).
lol. I don't see women as being better looking than men. Strip of the outer plumage of a male bird and there is very little difference between the male and the female. God gave man the choice of his plumage. But under that there is nothing more attractive than the other. For a scientist, your statement seems to be odd. God insured the human and animal species continuance through chemistry first.
The only exception are women who are insecure and define themselves in terms of a strong man.
Although that can be true, it is instinctual to desire a man who can care for a family. Only women, going by feelings (attraction) alone, do not take this into consideration. I think that is one reason why God wants her to have a father who will watch over her. A good father will point out the important things she should be looking for, thus the old fashioned asking Dad's permission to marry his daughter. A man who doesn't take care for his family is as an infidel. (1 Tim. 5:8) Only stupid women marry infidels, been there done that.
 
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