You know what your problem is, don't you ?

[humble soul]

Look I'm being totally loving. I'm just pointing out your shopping list of faults, for your benefit. So just copy the list, put it on the fridge door and focus on becoming a less sinful person. Lucky you've got me actually. Because my awesome insights into your defective personality, will no doubt help you become the better person, that God and I think you can become. Yeah God and I was just talking about you the other day. We came to the conclusion that I had to lay it on the line and give you some truth telling. Truth telling. Guess it's my forte. I'm really doing God's work by telling others where they are below par.
Fortunately, I have few faults. So no one needs to point out my flaws. Guess my worst flaw is I am too honest.
Look. You can try to point out some of my flaws if you really want to. good luck with that. I'm pretty close to blemish free so there you go. Anyway. Whenever people want to find fault with me, they are just being sinful, not loving. It's their problem .Not mine. They are hurting I guess and need to lash out. But when I find fault in others, it's always out of love and truth telling.
Ok got that?