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Thanks for sharing. I understand your view on a 30 year Mortage and a 6 year auto loan. I could never do either for two reasons.
1. In 1989 I grossed over 34k. That was good money back then. Life happened and I found myself living in a homeless shelter and I lost everything except my car which I hid from the Repo man for over a year until I saved enough to pay it off (I only owed $500 on it).
I get anxiety with debt because I understand it’s really not mine and all that money I paid toward the debt could be for nothing.
2. I work too hard to throw money away on interest. If you look at the money you pay in interest on a 30 year loan, without running the numbers I have to imagine it would pay for a few cars. The first new car I bought was in 2016 and I pulled a three year loan and paid it off in two. My second new car was in 2019 when I purchased a 2018 lease we had and we paid it off in just over 2 years.
Neither of those purchases would have been possible to pay off so quickly had we had a Mortage over our heads. In both cases, had “life” happened we could have pulled from other sources of income / savings and paid them off. Again, I carry anxiety with debt.
We paid our second house off I think around 2012 and we said no to a lot of things to pay it off so quickly. It also helped that our first home was paid off and was used as a huge down payment for our current home. Anyway, once we were Mortage free, we pretended we still had a Mortage and banked that $ and started enjoying the fruits of wage increases.
We have everything we need and honestly, the biggest expense I have is my Camaro and I pay cash for every upgrade. I’ve had several very significant pay bumps in recent years, yet I divert those pay increases into my 401k, savings, HSA, IRA’s and we are able to give to those in need within our community. None of this would be possible to the degree we are doing it had we not buckled down early and not only achieved debt free early, but also maintained that status.
We raised 3 kids and paid a Mortage off early and none of our kids went without and at that time my wages were not even close to what they are now. As a result, I am a firm believer that it’s not how much you make, but what you do with it.
I’m not saying a 30 year Mortage is wrong. Not an I saying a 6 year car loan is wrong. What I’m saying is I work too hard to give my money away to interest. I hate interest.