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  1. Nikki

    confused mother of 22yo no sex but adoption?

    No offense to Tim, but I disagree with him. I think your daughter is a wonderful person for wanting to change the life of a child. Children in foster care or in an orphanage just want to be loved and accepted. I think many would be thrilled to have a mother. The child can have male role models...
  2. Nikki

    Love my husband, hate my marriage....

    Has he started the new job yet? How are things going?
  3. Nikki

    How is interracial marriages viewed in the eyes of God?

    The two white children already have a lot of hatred towards the biracial child. I can understand why though. I would be angry too because I would wonder why my mom kept her and not me. The mother is extremely immature and life is all about her. The biracial child already has a LOT of behavioral...
  4. Nikki

    How is interracial marriages viewed in the eyes of God?

    The daughter is really no better. She too claims to be a christian, but she's out sleeping with many different men, partying, drinking, etc. She and her ex gave up custody of her two "white" children to her parents. She kept the biracial child. It's a HUGE mess.
  5. Nikki

    A New Level in Parenting

    It's not an easy job and I'm going to do everything in my power to keep my girls from having premarital sex, but I also know that realistically I won't always be there 24/7 to monitor them. Eventually they will be driving, having a job, etc. They can easily take a "detour" home from work. They...
  6. Nikki

    A New Level in Parenting

    The thought of my daughters having sex terrifies me. BUT then I have to take a step back and look at myself when I was a teen. My parents raised me in a Christian home, I was taught to wait till marriage, etc. I had all intentions of saving myself, but unfortunately, I wasn't strong enough to...
  7. Nikki

    Birth Control Options

    I wonder about a holistic dr.....one that won't try to push man-made hormonal pills and stuff like that. Maybe a holistic dr could help you better understand how you figure out your cycle. We have a new one here in town and people are loving her.
  8. Nikki

    Let me tell you what my 12 year old turd did...

    You are absolutely right and I TRY to give my worries to God, but that is so much easier said than done sometimes.
  9. Nikki

    Birth Control Options

    I was gonna say!!! I mean, to each their own, but I'm still going to voice my opinion because that's just how I am. LOL! I was actually going to say "Have you lost your mind?!". J/K
  10. Nikki

    my spouse is an adict, is divorce ok?

    Not at all. In fact, it means you have a big enough heart that you love yourself and your child enough to get away from that environment. You can continue to pray for him to get clean, but ultimately that ball is in his court. I have a cousin that is an addict. I tried showing love and I tried...
  11. Nikki

    my spouse is an adict, is divorce ok?

    From what I remember, the bible allows divorce in the case of adultery...which your saying your husband has already done. First things first...get yourself and your child out of that house. You don't have to run out and file for divorce, but you also don't have to live with him and subject...
  12. Nikki

    Birth Control Options

    If they aren't ready for kids, then they have NO BUSINESS getting pregnant. Are you against condoms too? Just curious.
  13. Nikki

    Birth Control Options

    I took the pill for many years and just suffered through the side effects (nausea was the one that hit me like a ton of bricks). After having my 2nd daughter, I tried the Depo Provera shot. A lot of people swear by it, but it made me a VERY mean and depressed person. It's great if it works for...
  14. Nikki

    Let me tell you what my 12 year old turd did...

    To clarify something, I didn't call her a turd. That's just what I posted here in my title. I will be the first to admit that I'm too controlling. I KNOW I need a LOT of work in that area. I know that it can cause more problems. I'm really trying harder to loosen up a bit. Just pray for...
  15. Nikki

    How important do you feel extracurricular activities/sports are?

    Oh, I AM going to be a nervous wreck. I'm afraid of her breaking her neck or something. She tumbles all the time at home and she and her friends try to do all these stunts. I'm always having to fuss at them to stop. At least I can find comfort now that she will be doing it with professionals...
  16. Nikki

    How is interracial marriages viewed in the eyes of God?

    My husbands sister is not much of a parent. If she's going to allow her parents to treat her own child that way, then really, she is no better than her parents. She and her ex gave up custody of their 2 white children to her racist parents, but she kept the biracial child. Of course, now that...
  17. Nikki

    How important do you feel extracurricular activities/sports are?

    Oh, and that's funny you mentioned about the titles. A friend whos daughter goes to the "popular" gym said that the place we like doesn't win much. I told her winning wasn't important to us. DD just wanted to have fun doing what she enjoys and that she just wants to be part of a team. Winning a...
  18. Nikki

    How important do you feel extracurricular activities/sports are?

    This particular gym we are looking into actually has long sleeve uniforms with no bellys showing. They have to wear shorts and a t-shirt that they are given to practice in. It's a loose tshirt with the cheer logo on it. The "popular" cheer place here makes their girls wear a sports bra and...
  19. Nikki

    How important do you feel extracurricular activities/sports are?

    My girls haven't been involved in any sort of activities for several years now. My oldest has tried out for many sports in middle school but she's never made the cut. She's never given up though and I give her SO much credit for continuing to go for what she wants. Last week she went to cheer...
  20. Nikki

    How is interracial marriages viewed in the eyes of God?

    How hateful people can be is really sickening, isn't it? Do you KNOW how hard it is for me to tolerate my inlaws and be respectful? I don't want to be as hateful at them so I just plaster on a fake smile, ignore their ignorant comments and then unfortunately for DH, I usually explode as soon as...
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