Jethro Bodine I couldn't have said it better. Spot on, brother! When I look at the early Church gatherings, they were made up exclusively of those who already loved Christ, and it was a vital time to teach from the Word and meet their needs. No doubt they cared deeply about the needs of those on the outside looking in, but the sole purpose of these meetings was to strengthen and equip their fellow brothers & sisters in Christ.
As I said in my prior post, I've found that you can have a wonderful pastor, leading his flock by the Word of God, but that may not be the community that you are called to wrap your life around. One is likely to become exhausted and dejected if one's spiritual needs are not being addressed. Sometimes church politics dictate that laypeople aren't empowered to make change. It may not be that they MUST find a new church, but it is a valid reason to consider a new one, IMHO.