Mujahid, thanks for sharing your observations. I skimmed through and did not see that anyone directly commented to you, so I will.
Now, since I am also a member of a sufi tarriqa, I am familiar with the spiritual science, and I took with me an interesting observation - for the sufis who resemble charismatics, their goal is not the manifestation of "The Giftrs" as charismatics would say, but to move beyond that and obey the law to the fullest and control oneself when one is bestowed "A Gift" - for the sufis, "The Holy Spirit" if you will, bombards them with the tajaliyat - but their goal is to be a calm guiding vessle for such tajalliyat, not to writhe on the floor or speak in tongues, but to calmly become one with God - so that every step they take is in the name of God, and every word they speak is the word of God.
Some of your observation is probably due to the type of church you attended, which sounds as though it was quite demonstrative. There are many pentecostal churches that you would observe individuals being calm and controlled, as you describe the sufi.
You comment that it seems to you that for those who speak in tongues the goal is the speaking, or the gift, rather than to move beyond that and seek to become one with God. Again, I think part of this could be the congregation you were in. There are churches where the emphasis is on the "gift", and sometimes in churches it is quite uncontrollable and disorderly. It is no wonder in the NT that Paul discussed proper and improper ways to use the gift in the church. The gift is not intended to cause confusion but to edify the body, edify the individual, serve as a sign, etc. But other churches do not place the emphasis on the tongues, but rather you would be seeing that there is a moving beyond that to a oneness with God. Let me explain further, because part of the difference is also in the difference between Islam and Christianity. You have to remember that in Christianity, unlike Islam, there is the idea of "God in us", and people not only invite Jesus in their heart, but they ask the Holy spirit to fill them to overflowing. The manifestation of tongues is sometimes viewed as a result of the Holy Spirit filling man to overflowing, so that it pours out of him. So, while the sufi is seeking a oneness with God, the Christian already views God as being within. When the tongue is used it is often believed to be the Holy Spirit interceeding on man's behalf and helping him communicate God's words with man or man's words with God. So, the tongue being the goal, is really more than it seems.... the focus is really not on the tongue, but on the Holy Spirit.
Since there are such great differences in beliefs regarding tongues and the use of tongues, it can be difficult to generalize-- which is what I am trying to do, give a more generalized explanation.
But certainly, you will find great differences from church to church, and from individual to individual.
The charismatics seem to stop with the "gift" - and then do nothing to move past this gift - their goal seems to be symptom and not the Source.
I should have left this with your previous quote, since I answered it above. Just to say it again, the goal is really with having the source (the holy spirit) inside and speaking on behalf of man and God.
But yes, in some churches there is too much emphasis on the gift. Sad, imo.
I got this impression talking to various people I saw who spoke in tongues during the service - they seemed to feel as if the speaking in tongues was the highest level - that nothing laid beyond that. Where as when you speak to sufis who go into simalr states during gatherings, they apologize and vow to control this state next time.
In some churches it is seen as the "highest" level. Some churches even view it as essential for salvation.
I wonder if jason or pard or someone else could maybe shed some light on that for me since I did not really go too in depth with the people I spoke to.
Are the tongues or interpretation of tongues the highest point, or stoping point, or do you guys teach that one can be given the "gift" without losing control - like a person who has moved to higher station and is able to prophesise or speak in tongues at will?
As far as speaking at will vs. losing control. If you look at research, individuals often report being not in control during tongues, but studies have actually shown that they are able to control it. Depending on what church you attend you may see it very controlled. It sounds as though the one you attended was not. I have been in churches where people have stopped on command. For example, I was in a church that will remain unnamed, and there were thousands in the auditorium, and near the end of the praise and worship time when people were speaking in tongues, one woman began to very audibly call out a "message" in tongues. As soon as she barely began, the pastor pointed at her and commanded her to stop. She stopped instantly, even though I am sure her eyes were probably closed and she could not see him pointing at her. The fact that her tongue stopped instantly is one demonstration of the ability of an individual to stop the tongue at will. (As a side comment, pastors will stop a tongue is 1) it is out of order or 2) it is not from God........... now you will ask how they know it is not from God.
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Research on the trance hypothesis of tongues has also not found support.
I will say that charismatic churches are often quite demonstrative, and what you describe is certainly not outside the norm, but it is also not representative of the whole.
Lance, I hope we were not going too far off.... if so, maybe one of the mods can split the thread.