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APOLOGIES TO STAY AT HOME PARENTS

As a woman would you prefer to be at home when your kids are growing up or be at work?

In the 1950s, 60s and even 70s a man's wage was enough to support a wife and kids, own a home and go on holidays every year. A woman had the choice of working or running the home.

But society has fed this lie to women that true happiness is not found in family but that it's found at work. So as more women entered the workforce, more labour kept wages low.

Now a woman must go to work as well as the man in order to get a mortgage.

I was talking about this with my mum one day. And I asked her if she got more joy from raising us or from working.

The poor woman broke down in tears saying that she wishes she could of been there for us... I was so moved she made me cry so I just hugged her tightly... A mother's love for her child is truly extraordinary.

My dad worked day shift and my mum worked afternoon. So after school it was dad raising us. By the time our mum got home at midnight we would be asleep. That's no way for a loving mother to live away from her children

She got injured from repetitive work in packing where all the women worked in the factory. The men had technical jobs like running machines, maintenance etc.

So my mum went over to the technical side of the factory and learn to do a job that no other woman had done before her. She has no education, no engineering experience, speaks poor English, is poor at math and is amonst men doing what was known as a man's job. But against all odds she learnt the job, a very technical job with high responsibility

Sure she is proud of smashing the glass ceiling u could say but she only did it cos she had to do it for us.

Her joy was always her family and still is
 
I prefer to stay home. I had to work full-time when my oldest was little and I worked the nightshift when both of them were still little. I have a unique situation with my life that makes it more than a blessing to be able to be here for my kids at this particular time in their lives. Some people on here know what that is, but I don't know if I need to express that right now.

My family doesn't feel as chaotic when I'm able to be available for people whenever.
 
My wife was a stay at home mom. All six of our children benefited greatly from that.
She was available for anything they needed.
And we feel for the young women in our family today and others for whom there seems no choice but to hold down a job.
 
My wife is a stay at home mom, and she homeschools. By God's great grace I have a job that makes this possible.
 
This will also reply to Christ the King in post no. 2.

I preferred staying at home.
I stayed at home for about 13 years to raise my two kids and then I went to a very easy job that was part-time.

As Knotical said...not everyone has the choice to do this.
It was important for me to raise my own children and not have others raise them. My mom was not around when I got home from school, so I know what that feels like and I didn't want my children to go through the same.

Kids could do without some material things, but they cannot do without their parents. Only their parents could instill in them the values that they feel are important. I was fortunate...my children turned out very good and we have a great relationship.

Because of the reasons that ChristtheKing stated,,,,my daughter-in-law had to work....I know what she missed and I know what their three children (my grandkids) missed. I'm sorry about it but I couldn't be of help or I would have raised them myself. They live in the states.

Yes. Raising children is the most important job on this earth because parents affect their children for their entire life.
 
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